Alarming Signs That for Him You're an Option 💁🏼‍, Not a Priority 💯 ...

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When you’re dating someone, it’s nice to know that they are fully committed to you.

In relationships, you should feel like the most important person to your partner, not just another person for them to be with.

We’ve found some ways to tell if your beau is treating you like he should – signs that you may just be an option to him.

Read on 👉

1. Everything is Last Minute⏱

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Spontaneity can be attractive on occasion.

But if all your plans are last minute when your BF figures out he has nothing better to do, then that’s a sure sign that he’s not prioritizing the relationship.

It’s nice to be able to plan together, even if it’s simply time to hang out low key.

2. You’re the Initiator🙋

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Relationships should be about 50/50 as far as effort goes.

If it’s looking to be 99% you and 1% him, then you have a problem.

If I’m always the one to text a guy first or the only one to suggest hanging out, then I usually back off.

I take it as a sign that he doesn’t care enough to try.

3. They Bail🏃

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Things can’t always go perfectly, and sometimes things come up that causes people to cancel plans.

But if someone is constantly backing out last minute and letting you down, then it’s time to evaluate the relationship.

I always find reliability attractive;

because it shows me they really care.

4. Lack of Interest😴

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I think that we can all agree that people who remember things us are the best.2

It shows me that someone really cares if they take a genuine interest in my life.

If the conversations are one sided or if they forget important things in your life, then it’s a sign they don’t really care all too much.

He’s Not Thoughtful🙇
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