10 Behaviors Your Man πŸ‘¨πŸΏπŸ‘¨πŸΌπŸ‘¨πŸ½πŸ‘¨πŸ» Finds Controlling πŸ”’ and How to Stop βœ‹πŸΌ ...

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Guys view things from a much different perspective than we do.

Therefore, your boyfriend may interpret things you do as controlling, even if you don’t intend them that way at all.

Knowing what the behaviors are that he finds controlling can help you to avoid a lot of fights in your relationship.

If you feel unsure about any of these, ask him to get his input.

1. Asking Tons of Questions

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Girls love details.

We want to know all the details on a subject.

Guys don’t feel or think this way;

for them, getting the main info is enough.

When you ask a guy tons of questions, he may feel bombarded or overwhelmed.

Chances are, he may not even know the answers to some of the things you’re asking him.2

Try to ask him the most important questions and let some of the others go.

2. Dissing His Friends

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Guys feel a close bond to their friends.

They aren’t as verbal or showy about it as girls are but they definitely have loyalty within their circles.

If he doesn’t ask what you think of a friend, assume he doesn’t want to know.

Criticizing them can make him defensive of them which isn’t good for your relationship.

If you think about it, you don’t want him bashing your friends, either.

3. Making Plans without Checking with Him

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Most guys like when their girlfriend takes the initiative to make plans.

They appreciate that they don’t have to think of plans for the two of you to do.

But they don’t like to be told what the plans are;

they want to be asked for their thoughts.

Most of the time they’ll go along with you but they want the opportunity to veto ideas.

And on occasion, they’ll give their own ideas which can make for a nice for a change of pace.

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