10 Behaviors Your Man πŸ‘¨πŸΏπŸ‘¨πŸΌπŸ‘¨πŸ½πŸ‘¨πŸ» Finds Controlling πŸ”’ and How to Stop βœ‹πŸΌ ...

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Guys view things from a much different perspective than we do. Therefore, your boyfriend may interpret things you do as controlling, even if you don’t intend them that way at all. Knowing what the behaviors are that he finds controlling can help you to avoid a lot of fights in your relationship. If you feel unsure about any of these, ask him to get his input.

1. Asking Tons of Questions

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Girls love details. We want to know all the details on a subject. Guys don’t feel or think this way; for them, getting the main info is enough. When you ask a guy tons of questions, he may feel bombarded or overwhelmed. Chances are, he may not even know the answers to some of the things you’re asking him. Try to ask him the most important questions and let some of the others go.

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OhMeOhMy10
... REMEMBER... He must chase you!!!
OhMeOhMy10
# 7. Whatever you do... Do not chase him! He needs feel like you are a challenge... even after being together for years & years! If anything... Please, Please
Khosi
Is it more if I ask for commitment. 7yrs later still just a girlfriend??? So I gave him an ultimatum. He gladly left, claiming I suffocate him. He didn't even fight.
Mira Hawthorne
Lead, that's fine too. You do you!
Mira Hawthorne
And ladies, don't let people push you into staying silent and not taking control. If you want to break out of that patriarch mold and be in charge of your relationship, DO IT. The right man will respect you for it. And if you prefer to let him take the
Mira Hawthorne
See, I have a hard time with some of these. It frustrates me when men get mad at me for asking them out/pursuing them or for trying to set the pace. When men want to have control over those things I find that they aren't as confident in their manhood.
Pearlfect08
6 is very important. Learning that now. To be patient
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