5. Sex is a Release

Sex isn't just about romance.

Sometimes people use sex as a release the same way you want an after work drink.

This is a big difference between sex and love.2

Love includes emotions, while sex is just the action.

Having sex with someone is a release for yourself and can be a purely selfish motive.

When you are doing it for that reason, it's not about love.

Selflessness

Comments:

avisto44uk
Imagine life without sex
Megan
Their is a big difference ! X
Brianna
That was a great article! I have been with my boyfriend for several months now and The sex we have isn't just sex; it's love.
Heather Jensen
Hi Saki! It sounds like he wants more and more sex and he is just trying to get you back into bed. Truthfully, I think that you can totally do better! ;)
saki
i think #3 is very true. in my experience i have noticed that many boys are hard for hours when we are together, just sitting there having a normal conversation or some other non-sexual activity sometimes even in public. the boy i am currently seeing is so inexperienced and passive (uncertain of how to take the lead in anything) during sex i thought he might be a virgin. after we had sex for the first time i waited for him to contact me and a few days later he told me that my sex is amazing and unforgettable and he's addicted but it's not the only way he thinks of me. he said he felt love when our bodies were connected. he also told me to stop any kind of romantic interaction with other boys. a few weeks later we had an argument through text about abortion (even though i've never been pregnant) and he's been acting distant and cold ever since even though he suggested we have makeup sex one time. i don't know how he feels but i think i'm in love with him. what does it mean if his face is close to mine and he is looking at me and very gently touching my cheek while i'm asleep? i woke up a few times and this was happening.
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