5. Sex is a Release

Sex isn't just about romance. Sometimes people use sex as a release the same way you want an after work drink. This is a big difference between sex and love. Love includes emotions, while sex is just the action. Having sex with someone is a release for yourself and can be a purely selfish motive. When you are doing it for that reason, it's not about love.

Selflessness

Comments:

Heather Jensen
Hi Saki! It sounds like he wants more and more sex and he is just trying to get you back into bed. Truthfully, I think that you can totally do better! ;)
saki
i think #3 is very true. in my experience i have noticed that many boys are hard for hours when we are together, just sitting there having a normal conversation or some other non-sexual activity somet...
Lyndsie Robinson
Katie, I would definitely cut him off. He's playing a huge double standard, and remember that any guy who will cheat on a girlfriend with you will cheat on you, too. You definitely don't need that, ...
Katie
I've been having sexual relations with this guy for like two years. I really like him. We even had sex when he had a girlfriend. He didn't care though. He always acts like he doesn't care about me but...
Heather Jensen
Agreed! When you do love someone, it is more than just sex. :) Thanks for the great comment!
Cindy Pham
It was confused about sex and love, but the main point is feeling. I think when u love someone is not sex only but feeling u have for each other. Not feeling then the sex just action to release u r better not without it
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