6. Selflessness

Love makes you want to please every part of your partner physically and emotionally. There is something about it that feeds you inside. Think of every romance movie you have seen where the guy courts, woos, and pleasures the woman he is fond over. It is never a rushed experience, but a sensual, caressing, and selfless moment. This is a big difference between sex and love. In comparison, sex can be fast with a goal of get off, and get done. When you're motive is selfish it's not about the love.

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Comments:

Brianna
That was a great article! I have been with my boyfriend for several months now and The sex we have isn't just sex; it's love.
Heather Jensen
Hi Saki! It sounds like he wants more and more sex and he is just trying to get you back into bed. Truthfully, I think that you can totally do better! ;)
saki
i think #3 is very true. in my experience i have noticed that many boys are hard for hours when we are together, just sitting there having a normal conversation or some other non-sexual activity somet...
Lyndsie Robinson
Katie, I would definitely cut him off. He's playing a huge double standard, and remember that any guy who will cheat on a girlfriend with you will cheat on you, too. You definitely don't need that, ...
Katie
I've been having sexual relations with this guy for like two years. I really like him. We even had sex when he had a girlfriend. He didn't care though. He always acts like he doesn't care about me but...
Heather Jensen
Agreed! When you do love someone, it is more than just sex. :) Thanks for the great comment!
Cindy Pham
It was confused about sex and love, but the main point is feeling. I think when u love someone is not sex only but feeling u have for each other. Not feeling then the sex just action to release u r better not without it
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