7. Chemistry

Think of the movie, 'How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days' where Matthew McConaghey and Kate Hudson have that epic moment in the shower where you literally see them fall in love with each other. It is not the most romantic love story but it is one I feel most women can relate too. There's that moment in a relationship when you connect with your partner on a new level, "love making" as most people call it. That chemistry is something two people can create only when you have love between you two. Of course you can have sexual attraction to each other and a spark. That's what makes sex hot and steamy, but it is not the full definition of lovemaking. There's all different levels of chemistry with someone, its just seeing where you truly connect.

A lot of times girls get confused with the differences between sex and love, but I hope these are helpful in relating to your experiences. With these in mind, whether you are single or in a relationship, think about how you feel when you are with someone and if its truly love or truly a hot, steamy, passionate sex endeavor? Have you ever confused sex with love?

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Comments:

Lyndsie Robinson
Katie, I would definitely cut him off. He's playing a huge double standard, and remember that any guy who will cheat on a girlfriend with you will cheat on you, too. You definitely don't need that, ...
Katie
I've been having sexual relations with this guy for like two years. I really like him. We even had sex when he had a girlfriend. He didn't care though. He always acts like he doesn't care about me but...
Heather Jensen
Agreed! When you do love someone, it is more than just sex. :) Thanks for the great comment!
Cindy Pham
It was confused about sex and love, but the main point is feeling. I think when u love someone is not sex only but feeling u have for each other. Not feeling then the sex just action to release u r better not without it
DuctTape & Bubblegum
Just mentioned the post on Twitter
Aiden
My old friends with benefits and me don't talk anymore it just sort of ended. I was tired of him just calling me up for sex whenever I was busy and expecting me to just go right over there do it and l...
Heather
That's awesome Kay! I'm so glad that it worked out for you!
Kay
I had a friend with benefits. We were just having casual sex for five years. I fell in love with him but didn't think he felt the same way. One day he just out the blue told me he loved me. Now we're a couple :)
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