15 Cheating Stats That'll Blow Your Mind ...

By Kati

15 Cheating Stats That'll Blow Your Mind ...

I saw some cheating stats this week that just blew my mind. We’re all so used to the same old story – it’s breadwinners who cheat, men are the worst culprits, it’s always physical. A massive study into infidelity blew most of these out of the water, though – and most people couldn’t believe it when told. The news has been so revolutionary that there are whole talks about the results. So, do these cheating stats surprise you?!

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Married Men Cheat More…

When it comes to cheating in a relationship, just as many women as men admitted to doing the deed. When it comes to married people, though, men are well in the lead. 22% of married men admitted to cheating at least once during their marriage, compared to just 14% of married women. That’s an 8% difference. This is one of those mind-blowing cheating stats that really baffles!

2

It’s Not Physical…

Cheating doesn’t have to be physical. While most people think that affairs are all about the steamy stuff, the cheats themselves have drastically different views. 41% of cheats admitted to a type of cheating that wasn’t physical – mainly in the form of emotional affairs. Non-physical cheating is a lot more common in married couples, too. Experts claim it’s because it’s a lot easier to hide an emotional connection to someone else than a physical one, especially when it comes to feeling guilty or worried.

3

It’s Business…

It seems business trips might deserve their shady reputations. When quizzed about where their affairs started, or how cheats found time to have an affair without their other half knowing, business trips were a common answer. 35% of cheaters admitted to starting an affair whilst on a business trip – and most of them claimed it wouldn’t have happened without the trip. Whether it’s the free hotel room or all that booze at tea, it seems the trips might be for pleasure, too…

UPD:

Business trips have long been associated with affairs, and it seems the reputation is well deserved. In a survey of cheaters, 35% admitted to starting an affair while on a business trip, and many of them said it wouldn’t have happened if they hadn’t been away.

The survey also revealed that the most common way for cheaters to find time to have an affair without their partner knowing was to take business trips. This is likely due to the fact that the trips offer a certain amount of freedom and anonymity that is difficult to find at home.

The survey also found that many cheaters felt more confident in their ability to keep their affairs a secret while on a business trip. This is likely due to the fact that they have more control over their environment and can more easily hide their activities.

Cheating on business trips is not exclusive to any particular demographic. In fact, the survey revealed that cheaters of all ages, genders, and backgrounds were equally likely to take advantage of the opportunities for infidelity that business trips offer.

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It’s Not Quick…

How long do you think the average affair lasts? Most people claimed one night, with a few guessing a few weeks, or even a month or so. It’s clear that the average person thinks that affairs burn out quickly! According to the research, though, most ‘flings’ actually last much longer. The average is two years, with some affairs going on for over a decade.

5

Keep It in the Family…

No, this isn’t a stat about the ‘cheating gene,’ or whether having parents who cheat affects your chances. It’s far grosser than that! A huge 17% of respondents admitted to cheating on their partner with their brother or sister-in-law. Yep, family. Why? For most, it seems that it’s just much more convenient – and a lot less likely to be suspicious.

UPD:

This shocking statistic highlights the disturbing trend of infidelity within families. While it may seem convenient and less likely to be discovered, cheating with a family member can have damaging effects on not only the relationship with the partner, but also with the entire family dynamic. Additionally, studies have shown that individuals who come from families where infidelity is prevalent are more likely to engage in cheating themselves. This further emphasizes the importance of addressing and breaking the cycle of infidelity within families.

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Women do It Too…

Men do stay in the lead in the ‘most likely to cheat’ scales, with a whopping 57% admitting to cheating in one or more relationships throughout their lives. However, women weren’t that far behind. 54% of women have had an affair, and 23% had cheated on more than one partner. It seems we don’t quite deserve our innocent explanation.

UPD:

While men are often spotlighted for their infidelity, it's a mistake to think that women don't succumb to similar temptations. These statistics shatter any lingering gender biases about who cheats more. The reasons behind why women straying are just as complex and varied as their male counterparts. From emotional dissatisfaction to a desire for variety, women's motivation for stepping out on their relationship often goes beyond the mere quest for physical gratification, weaving a complicated web of emotional fulfillment and sometimes, rebellion against traditional relationship constraints.

7

Nobody Comes Clean…

I can’t decide if this is one of the most or least surprising cheating stats, so I’ll leave it up to you. When it comes to being found out, most cheaters won’t admit to any more than their other half can prove. Even when confronted with evidence, almost all said that they’d lie, and 98% would minimize what had been discovered. It fits the classic cheating script – lie, minimize, deny, blame – but it’s a shocking thing to admit to!

8

Coworkers Get Close...

Not many affairs begin between strangers, like you might see on television. In fact, 60% start at work. Since he sees his coworkers so often, it’s convenient for him to cozy up to one of them. Plus, unless you work together, there’s no way for you to see how he interacts with her at the office.

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Many do It...

No one wants to be cheated on, and no one wants to be labeled a cheater. However, when surveyed, 41% of married men and women admitted to cheating. That’s nearly half! It’s no surprise that the divorce rate keeps raising when relationships are this shaky.

10

Texts Can Get Flirty...

Would you be angry if you found flirty texts in your boyfriend’s phone? According to huffingtonpost.com, “More than 80 percent of women felt that texting or online flirting were unfaithful acts, only 56 percent of men agreed.” No one wants their partner flirting with someone else. Their words may be harmless, but they could lead to an affair.

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Kissing is Controversial...

According to huffingtonpost.com, “All of the women polled (100 percent) thought that sharing a passionate kiss counted as cheating, but only 86 percent of men felt the same.” It’s hard to believe that anyone would think of a kiss as a harmless act, but they do. When you enter a relationship with a man, it might be helpful to tell him exactly what you consider cheating, even if it seems obvious to you.

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Divorce May Follow...

There are plenty of different reasons why couples get divorces. Some simply fall out of love. Others have financial or moral issues. However, 17% of divorces are caused by infidelity. As common as cheating seems to be, it’s a deal-breaker for most people.

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Possibility of Pregnancy...

Whenever you hook up with someone, you can’t forget about the possibility of pregnancy. According to truthaboutdeception.com, 2-3% of children are the products of one parent’s infidelity. Some women tell their children who their real father is, while others lie about it. If you’d be too embarrassed to tell your child who their real father is, then you should reconsider sleeping with the man at all.

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Don’t Get Caught...

Would you cheat if you knew for a fact that you wouldn’t get caught? 68% of women and 74% of men claim that they would, if given the chance. The biggest thing that keeps them from staying loyal isn’t their love, but their worry over being found out.

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Love Doesn't Fade...

If someone cheats on you, it doesn’t mean that he’s fallen out of love with you. His feelings may remain, but he is unsatisfied with a certain aspect of the relationship. Instead of working things through with you, he decided to take the easy way out and find someone new, who he had no issues with. If your man cheats, you have a right to kick him to the curb, but know that he may still really love you.

Some of these cheating stats really surprised me. While women often get a reputation for being innocent and faithful, it appears that we don’t quite deserve that reputation – but men aren’t all innocent, either. And when it comes to business trips and emotional affairs, nobody comes off well. Are you surprised by these cheating stats?!

This article was written in collaboration with editor Holly Riordan.

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#5 my wife did with her brother but come to find out when he was 17 and she was 10 he had done it with her then. While during our marriage, he lived with us for a year and they decided to revist the younger days. This time they were older and mature.

Omg Married men cheat too???. I makes me Wonder about my Married colleague who is still quite good looking n young

U guys think, men can be in love and still cheat on his girlfriends!

And who exactly performed this "study"? I keep trying frequent this site but it's becoming more and more lies, rumor and rhetoric then anything helpful. In other words, the articles reflect more the emotional "fantasies" of spurned and angry women. Pull it together ladies. Sites like this just perpetuate the negative stigma about women.

I've heard men say that line so many times..."deny deny deny" They seem to think it works somehow.

Sadly I know people with all 7 qualities. Cheating is a choice. That's it. Nobody forces anyone to be unfaithful. Cheaters should not have any excuse or anyone else to blame for their behaviour. It's just that they get away with it because the other half chooses to keep a blind eye to what's going on. Cheaters will continue to do what they do, cuz people allow it and laugh at it. I don't tolerate it.

If there weren't men willing to sleep with married women, or if there weren't women willing to sleep with married men (throw in there same-sex affairs) maybe infidelity would be rare. At the end of the day, both genders share the culpability. Those who initiate an affair aren't more guilty that those who have no qualms about getting in the middle of a relationship and contributing to its breakdown!

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