I agree with the snooping, to be honest… I understand the argument, that you get infos about him/her, but this just isn’t right. If you find out as the one who is “snooped at”, you ...See more are hurt and disappointed in the partner…
of course it can be HELPFULL or giving you an advantage, but that doesn’t make it RIGHT…
cheating could also be helpful in some situations…
you learn to value the things in the partner noone else has
you cheat because you miss something in your relationship, and if the third person has this, but not the stuff to be your boyfriend/girlfriend, it can be helpful, because you won’t leave your partner just because of this one missing thing (I hope I stated this in a way to understand :) ),
but Those reasons don’t make the act of cheating RIGHT… and just because you think you have reasons to do this or that, be it snooping or cheating, it doesn’t mean that your partner won’t be hurt, and that way it can very easily end your relationship…
I agree with the snooping, to be honest… I understand the argument, that you get infos about him/her, but this just isn’t right. If you find out as the one who is “snooped at”, you ... See more are hurt and disappointed in the partner…
of course it can be HELPFULL or giving you an advantage, but that doesn’t make it RIGHT…
cheating could also be helpful in some situations…
you learn to value the things in the partner noone else has
you cheat because you miss something in your relationship, and if the third person has this, but not the stuff to be your boyfriend/girlfriend, it can be helpful, because you won’t leave your partner just because of this one missing thing (I hope I stated this in a way to understand :) ),
but Those reasons don’t make the act of cheating RIGHT… and just because you think you have reasons to do this or that, be it snooping or cheating, it doesn’t mean that your partner won’t be hurt, and that way it can very easily end your relationship…
gawd, sometimes I just write and write O.o