2. Always Too Busy to Call You

If he is busy all that time, is he too busy to call you? Does he call you at all? Ever? That's another sign girls that he could be spending time with someone 'real', instead of someone that he has committed himself to emotionally. Sometimes, when you are dating someone online, it's hard to be truthful always, but if you find the phone calls decreasing and next to nothing, he could be cheating.

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does it mean that sometimes when he doesn't pick my calls it means he is cheating?
Heather Jensen
Hi Dana! I would definitely confront him. If you are committing your feelings to someone online, you've got to make sure that they are honest with you. :)
Although sometimes, he'll talk about girls he DOES talk to or message with. I think he does this just to make me jealous. For example, he'll message me saying "Oh, I hope you had fun with your parents...
I've been in an online romance for 6 months now, and reading this article has opened up my eyes a lot. We Skype very often and he never seems to tell me much about his personal life. He never tells me...
Just mentioned the post on Twitter
Heather Jensen
Aww! I'm so sorry that happened to you! I definitely agree that listening to your gut is absolutely the best way. If you have a bad feeling, there has to be a reason for it.
Diana Marie Denza
@Gem J, Sometimes, your intuition is the best indicator!
Gem J
I think gut instinct comes into it a lot, too. One of my exes was cheating with 6 others that I know about and looking back, I just had this kinda feeling
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