3. Never Online

In the beginning of the relationship, was he always online?

Was he constantly messaging you and constantly popping up?

Is he never, ever online now?

Is he always 'away' or just not ever showing up?

It could be because he is spending his time with someone else instead of with you.

His Privacy Settings on Facebook


Geoff LoPresti
ok... since nobody seems to get this... if you met the man/woman online and have never met in the first place how can you really be dating? yeah you can skype and things of that nature, you could even have agreed that your "dating", but lets be honest. how much of a connection can you really get over a computer, or even a phone for that matter? your setting yourself up for failure if you use nothing but online dating sites any way. log off the computer and head out into the world and meet people. 9 times outta 10 its not gonna kill you.
Heather Jensen
Hi Nana! It all depends on what your relationship with your boyfriend is -- do you trust him? Do you think that he is cheating on you?
does it mean that sometimes when he doesn't pick my calls it means he is cheating?
Heather Jensen
Hi Dana! I would definitely confront him. If you are committing your feelings to someone online, you've got to make sure that they are honest with you. :)
Although sometimes, he'll talk about girls he DOES talk to or message with. I think he does this just to make me jealous. For example, he'll message me saying "Oh, I hope you had fun with your parents tonight. I've been Skyping with my friend Emily. She's so pretty and nice and we are really close! We literally talked about everything, I used to like her, ya know?" I'm not sure how to handle it when he says things like this...
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