7 Clues That He is Cheating on You ...


If your boyfriend has started doing things that seem unusual or secretive, you might be looking for clues that he is cheating on you.

Maybe you can’t put your finger on it, but something just doesn’t feel right.

If you really believe he is hiding something from you, trust your gut.2

When searching for clues that he is cheating, keep your eyes peeled for any of these 7 common behaviors of cheaters.

1. Phone Clues

Your guy’s cell phone can help you uncover some of the biggest clues that he is cheating.

Unfortunately, if he IS cheating, he’ll likely keep close tabs on his phone.

If you do manage to get your hands on it, search his contacts.

Look for contacts that only have numbers or initials, instead of actual names.

Notice if he always deletes his text messages and phone log, too.3

2. Unexpected Gifts

Has your boyfriend suddenly started giving you gifts?2

Of course, every gift-giver isn’t a cheater, but if he has never been the type to do this before, he might have an ulterior motive.

Your guy may be feeling guilty or trying to pacify you with unexpected gifts.

Look at his reaction when you question him about the gifts.

A cheater will probably get defensive or angry that you are questioning his motives.2

3. Improved Appearance

It’s common for cheaters to suddenly take an interest in their appearance.

If this is a new behavior for him, stay alert.

Does he groom himself more often, wear new cologne or dress better?

If there is no legitimate reason for this sudden interest in his appearance, like a new job, your suspicions may be correct.

This unexplained behavior change is common with cheaters.2

4. Changes in the Bedroom

Notice if your guy suddenly acts different in the bedroom.

If he’s cheating, he could either be more interested in sex or have a sudden drop in his libido.

Cheaters often have intimacy issues.

Even if you two are still having sex, he may no longer initiate kissing or anything else that requires a level of intimacy.2

This also includes intimate conversations.

He’ll probably stick to surface-level conversations in order to protect his secrets.

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