There are little things guys lie about in order to impress women. They assume that we all want a specific type of man, and they try to live up to the image that they think we love. While fibbing is never a good thing, there are small things guys lie about in order to impress us that can be overlooked if they mean well. Here are a few of the exaggerations that men commonly make:
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1. His Awesome Athleticism
Guys want to be fit, but even if they're not very sporty, they might act like they are. If they played sports in high school, they'll mention it in hopes of impressing you, even if they graduated ten years ago. One of the most common things guys lie about is how athletic they really are. They believe in the stereotype that men are supposed to be strong, and they want to show you that they're a "real man."
2. His Wallet Weight
If you're on a date with a man, he'll probably offer to pay, and will act like it's not a big deal. Even if he's low on cash, he'll pretend that he's financially secure. He's not trying to lie to you, but he doesn't want to come across poorly in front of someone he's interested in.
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This wallet charade isn't about deceit; it's encapsulated in a charming dance of traditional courtship. He might subtly brush off the topic of finances or joke about how he needs to win the lottery, deflecting any real talk about his bank balance. It's his way of saying, "Right now, let's focus on us, not my account summary." So, while his plastic might be bracing for a bruising, his aim is to impress without a hint of stress.
Frequently asked questions
Honestly, some guys think exaggerating or fibbing makes them look cooler or more attractive. They might be nervous and believe they need to impress you by any means.
Oh, tons of stuff! They might lie about their job, hobbies, past relationships, wealth, or even their interests just to seem more appealing to you.
Trust your gut! If his stories seem too good to be true or he keeps changing his narrative, it’s a red flag. Also, look for signs like hesitation or avoiding eye contact.
Sadly, yes. But remember, while a little exaggeration is common, outright lies aren’t okay. A relationship built on honesty is always better!
Confront him gently and with an open mind. Ask why he felt the need to lie. Sometimes, understanding the reason can help you both move forward, either together or apart.
3. His Strikingly Good Taste
If you're in love with a certain band, he may pretend that he loves it as well in order to get you to like him. Of course, it can get him into trouble when you realize that he has no clue what any of the lyrics to the songs are. It's a silly thing to lie about, but he might take the risk in order to get your attention.
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When guys lie to impress women, it can be hard to tell if they are being sincere or not. It’s important to look out for signs that a guy is lying. One common lie is pretending to like certain bands or music just to get a woman’s attention. While it’s flattering for a guy to want to impress a woman, it’s not always genuine. A telltale sign is if the guy is unable to name any of the lyrics or songs from the band he claims to like.
Another common lie men tell to impress women is about their wealth or success. Some men might exaggerate the size of their bank account or the number of promotions they’ve received. They might even tell stories about expensive vacations or cars that they don’t actually have. If a guy is trying to impress you with his wealth, it’s important to do your own research and confirm whether or not his claims are true.
4. His Reputable Relationships
If he's never been in a "real relationship," he might stress the truth in order to impress you. If he's ashamed about his past, then he might only tell you the good things about his old relationships, and act like the bad things never happened. He wants you to consider him as a potential boyfriend, and that won't happen if you think he's just trying to play the field.
5. His Exceptional Intelligence
He might act like he knows way more about current affairs than he actually does. Before a first date, he might read a newspaper or two to try to increase his knowledge, but it's not something he typically does. He just wants something to talk to you about.
6. His Joyous Job
Hopefully he won't lie about having a job, but he might lie about what he's expected to do at his job. If he's ringing up customers at a register, he might throw in some extra tasks that he's supposedly responsible for completing. He wants to make it look like he's an important part of the company, and that he'll be moving up to a better position soon.
7. His Thrilling Talents
It's embarrassing to state that you have no hobbies or talents. If you start talking about your passions and he has nothing to contribute to the conversation, he might act like he's a pro at playing guitar or creating works of art. He doesn't want to seem like a bore.
You don't want to enter a relationship based on lies, but there are a few small things that you can let slide. As long as he's honest with you overall, and promises not to lie to you again, you can become a healthy couple. Have you ever found out a guy was lying in order to impress you?
Comments
Dani: For me, the most common thing for me to get lied to about is smoking. I've only dated one guy who has outright told me he smokes, and only 2 others that have asked me out, and out of the multiple guys I've dated or who've asked me out, all but 2 have smoked, but they know I'm "edge" and they know I hate it, so they always tell me they either don't, or they avoid the topic all together.
Monica: good one! haha
ladyynana: My man lie to impress me of his smoking habit. I really never like smoking guy.. But after several month dating me, he is actually quit smoking. Now, its already 4 years he stop it.. I just let it slide because I love him
Charlotte_5102: Mine lied about 4 out of 5 of those
Denise: Most of men are lie anyway .. And they think they can get over it ..
jade: thats a good news ladyynana because not all men can do that.....
Estrid: yup..,all guys lie and find it totally fine.Really donno how..
Madelyn: One boyfriend I had told me he wrote songs and even wrote a few for me. I sent them to my friend and she immediately googled the lyrics and it turns out that he never wrote them
jade: i trust my man to lie to protect me and i trust him to know the diffent...
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