7. You're Afraid to Be Single

Paradoxically, if you hate the idea of being single then being single could be exactly what you need.

People often fear that they will be lonely if they don't have a partner, or that it means they're not attractive enough to anyone.2

But that's not a very healthy foundation for a relationship, so learn not to be afraid of those times in your life when you're single.

Have you spent more time in relationships than on your own?

What do you think are the best things about being single?

Comments:

A Agnes
Thank you for the advice ! :) I'm not texting calling or messaging him so it's really up to him to decide if he wants me or not, but i don't know if I should talk to him on Wednesday just for a 'chat'? What do you guys think?
Mabelle
This is a great article. In my opinion, there is no perfect time to finding  Mr. Right. It come in it's perfect time. DO not lose hope if you've been hurt many times because these experiences make us better persons.
Mabelle
@A Agnes, I know where you are coming from. You can probably do the No Contact rule? Sometimes, men are too confident that we are always there for them but once they realize that they are about to lose us, then that's the time they'll go crazy about us.
A Agnes
It's hard but I'll get through this like I always do :)
A Agnes
I'm giving him and myself time away to work on what we both want.
A Agnes
Cause I can't be intimate with someone who just doesn't see himself with me,
A Agnes
Not someone who wants to be intimate without the label
A Agnes
I've had my heart broken so many times and I've just had enough in having some 'space' away from this guy who I really like but he says he just wants to be 'good friends' and take things slow? Which I'm okay with but I need someone who will be there for me
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