Don't Overlook These Dangerous Red Flags during a Date ...

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When you are dating, it's sometimes hard to see the red flags out there. It's sometimes hard to see what could be considered flaws. If you are on a date, make sure you have this guide pulled up so you can look for red flags!

1. His Phone is Ten Times More Interesting than You

His Phone is Ten Times More Interesting than You

If he is on his phone more than he is talking to you, walk away.

2. Mr. Braggy Pants

Mr. Braggy Pants

Let's say that he brags about his house, his wages, his job, everything! You don't want that right?

3. The Worker-bee

The Worker-bee

Or, let's say that all he talks about is working. Constantly. Remember, you're looking for a relationship.

4. He Constantly One-ups You

He Constantly One-ups You

Jesus, my brother does this a lot and it gets on my nerves.

5. ...worse, He Orders for You on the First Date

...worse, He Orders for You on the First Date

Some girls like this, some girls don't but I think it's controlling.

6. Common Ground? You Have None

Common Ground? You Have None

Which can be scary.

7. He's Obsessed with Himself

He's Obsessed with Himself

He is the topic of conversation always.

8. Ah, the Ex Has Come up at Least Four Times … in Five Minutes

Ah, the Ex Has Come up at Least Four Times … in Five Minutes

Oh lord, shoot me now.

9. Already Talking about Babies?

Already Talking about Babies?

Wait, what?

10. He's Asked You Your Opinion of Him Ten Times Already?

He's Asked You Your Opinion of Him Ten Times Already?

He's insecure. Very insecure. It's not something that is simple to get over either.

11. He Still Lives with His Parents and Has No Intentions of Moving out

He Still Lives with His Parents and Has No Intentions of Moving out

He also has no job and gets an allowance … and he's in his mid-twenties. Run. Fast.

12. He's Slept with How Many People?

He's Slept with How Many People?

Player. Big-time player.

13. They Are Way, Way Too Serious

They Are Way, Way Too Serious

And they can't even make you laugh.

14. Sharing Way, Way Too Much Way, Way Too Fast

Sharing Way, Way Too Much Way, Way Too Fast

There is no door or window to them. It is just open and free space.

15. They Spill Every Secret about Everyone They Ever Knew

They Spill Every Secret about Everyone They Ever Knew

You've only known them for five minutes and you know about every secret they've ever been told.

16. They Are Wicked Negative

They Are Wicked Negative

… and have no intention of perking up.

17. They Are Looking for a One Night Stand

They Are Looking for a One Night Stand

And they say that.

Comments:

Courtney
*p.s., a single comment is normal but obsessively turning the conversation to your ex is a cause for concern. I just wanted to elaborate on that.
Courtney
Out of respect, if you are with someone and trying to move on then I feel it is not cool to talk about your ex....If you are with one of your girlfriends or something that's different; but I feel if y...
Sev
I disagree with a lot of these, if he talks about work it means that he actually cares about what he does and it's a big part of his life, as someone who has a career that I love and have had for year...
Leslie Beebe
Oh how I wish they would say they were looking for a one night stand! I get the ones who play along that they are looking for a serious, committed relationship and bam! Here it comes-literally not fi...
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