7 Essential Qualities to Look for in Your Future Husband ...


I’m no dating expert and sure don’t make it a routine to give out dating advice, with the exception of these basic qualities to look for in your future husband, which I think every girl should know.

Some of these are generic ideas, while others we may not think about as much.

I know I certainly didn’t listen to my mother’s advice on dating as a teenager, and I’m starting to rethink that decision!

No wonder my relationships didn’t last.

I didn’t know what to look for in a mate, or even a boyfriend.

Keep these 7 basic ideas as must-have qualities to look for in your future husband, so you don’t have to take as long to figure them out as I did.

If you’re on the dating hunt like me, be sure that your standards are set, but also give way for a little wiggle room outside of these qualities.

While no one is perfect, these ideas will at least give you a baseline of what to look for.

1. Commitment

One of the most obvious qualities to look for in your future husband is commitment.

No, I’m not just talking about in your relationship either.

Is he committed to honesty, to his relationships with friends and family, to his job, and to his word?

Does he help others and stick to promises he makes people?

Is he committed to showing up on time to your dates, to only dating you and to not act as if he’s not your mate when he’s away from you?

Commitment is as much of an attitude as it is an action.

2. Emotionally Stable

Is your man affectionate towards you and does he love spending time with you?


Is he needy and lacking in self esteem?

Not so great!

You need a man that is confident in himself and has control of his emotions.

Someone who is excessively needy is not healthy, nor emotionally stable.

Someone who is rude to other people is also not emotionally stable.

Remember, your guy needs to be kind to others, and should want to be around you without acting like he can’t breathe if he doesn’t see you every night.

He also doesn’t need to consistently be up and down with emotions or be incapable of handling common life problems.

If he is, he may be unstable, which may lead you to acting more like his parent than his mate.

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