Dealing with financial reasons he won't commit isn't easy.
Are you with a guy who can’t seem to take the next step in the relationship and actually commit to being in a relationship with you? While you may irrationally go into the typical fear-based thoughts we all have like “the sex must be terrible for him,” “am I too clingy,” and “what did I do wrong,” the truth is, there is nothing you’ve done wrong. In fact, the guy may be head over heels for you but not making enough money at his entry-level job to be able to be the amazing boyfriend he knows that you deserve. In fact, there are several financial reasons he won't commit.
Think about it: young professional men in their twenties are just starting their careers. As a result, most of them are even struggling to pay their rent on time. Adding to the additional expense that comes with taking a girlfriend out to dinner and brunch it can be overwhelming for any guy. Now, it seems like there is a trend of young professional men to stay single for a lot longer than in previous generations. This is the time that young dudes are looking to save whatever they can for their future and is one of the biggest financial reasons he won't commit.
However, for women, we don’t have the same perspective on money as men. For us, paying our bills on time is often overlooked. Being in a commitment with a bank is sometimes not a young woman’s first priority. Instead, she is out there in the world finding a soulmate to call her own.
Apparently, men and women view financial stability in different ways. As a result, guys feel extreme pressure to be able to provide for women in relationships, which lead to more and more young men staying single until they feel like they are in a much better financial position to take on the additional expense of a woman. Here are just some of the things that a man will typically take into account when it comes to his finances and getting into a relationship.