7 Flirting Mistakes You Don't Want to Make ...

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Ah, the subtle art of flirting;

it’s a tricky one and it’s not always easy to know what the flirting mistakes you don’t want to make are.

Flirting is, in the hands of some women, a lethal weapon – in others (myself included)… not so much.

But you shouldn’t hold back through a lack of confidence – flirting, whether just a bit of fun or the start of a beautiful relationship, can leave you feeling great and give you a little esteem boost.

Just make sure you remember the flirting mistakes you don’t want to make.

1. DUTCH COURAGE

This is definitely one of the flirting mistakes you don't want to make, or you could wake up cringing in the morning.

Most social flirting happens at maybe a party, or a bar.

And that probably means the drinks will be flowing and downing a few cocktails for some Dutch courage will be tempting.

By all means, have a drink to relax – but remember there’s a fine line between very brave, and very drunk.

2. KEEP IT LIGHT

Don’t scare him off before you’ve had a chance to charm him.

You’ve only just met – don’t talk about how much you would like to meet someone special, how you’re ready to settle down and don’t get possessive over him if you spy him talking to other people.

He will think that you’re a crazy person.

3. DON’T BE a TEASE

Unless all you’re looking for is a one-off thing, it’s probably best not to come on too strong.

Subtle touching can be a good thing – maybe brush his arm or hand as you talk to him.

But if you throw yourself at him, or are overtly sexual, it could give him the wrong idea about what you want.2

And no-one likes a tease.

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