9 Great Ways to Flirt with a Shy Guy ...


Shy guys are hard to flirt with aren't they, especially if you don't know a lot of ways to flirt with a shy guy. If you find that you're crushing on a guy that's shy, don't worry ladies, I've got all the tips and tricks on ways to flirt with a shy guy! Just remember, shy guys have to be pulled out of their shell a little bit, so you may have to be a little more aggressive, but also friendly. So ladies, are you ready to learn all of the different ways to flirt with a shy guy?

1. Be Sensitive

The first way to flirt with a shy guy is to be sensitive. Some guys like an aggressive girl, but with a shy guy, you've got to take his feelings into account. If you come on too strong, you could actually scare him away. Just be sensitive to the vibe you are getting from him! Below, we'll also talk about body language too!

Be Sweet


Jean-Simon Lavoie
#3 start as strong as you want to break his shell and bring him out . Just slow down if you see his scare. But take the lead.
He's also that nerdy, kind of guy. I'm always myself around him, and look my best. I feel like we're so close, yet so far... What do I do?
Hi, I'm Megan and in the 9th grade. I've known this guy at my church for like all my life, we've basically grown up together! I really like him, and I have for a really long time know. He's a grade ...
Heather Jensen
Hi Astley! I'd say that you should definitely talk to him more -- see if you can get to know him one-on-one to see if he really is smart and nice. :)
I'm really interested in this guy in my English class. He's shy, but I heard from my friends that he's really nice, smart, and I found some common ground while finding out more about him (although thi...
Heather Jensen
Hi M! I'd honestly say that you should tell your brother to back off a little bit and maybe see if you can up the flirting on your guy. It'll make all of the difference in the world!
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