3. The Married Guy

The married guy is unavailable so it'll be harder for you to get attached, right? Wrong. A lot of us tend to want what we can't have and you might even convince yourself that you want this guy for the sole purpose that he's unavailable. I know how screwed up that sounds but it's the truth.

There's also a third party in the picture who your actions could affect. When it's just you and your friend making a mutually beneficial agreement, no outside person stands the chance of getting hurt. We want all the good karma we can muster! Furthermore, a man who is in a shaky marriage might be looking for someone to latch on as his savior for his failing relationship.

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Taylor
@Ashley Neal because not everyone sees there privates as a gift to give to a man? It odd how people view it as if your changed forever because of a mans parts. Your only pushing more shame on women. I...
Maggie
To thank you so much for this... The guy I'm crushin on wants to be just friends, but I seriously was going to try an pursue FWB with him, because well he's the best.. Anyway he totally meets 3 of the 7 criteria and you make such good points #gawdiloveyhisapp
Ashley Neal
@Taylor Yeah. Most people like that are considered 'easy'. They'll never find someone worth having a relationship with because that person's only going to want sex. I know I'm not one to judge, but I ...
Taylor
@Ashley Neal no need to slut shame other women. Some women like having sexual relations with no strings attached and some women like having a relationship before starting a sexual one (like me). Why j...
Katie
Don't forget about the boyfriend's best friend. My friend did that and it didn't end well.
Ashley Neal
Why would you have a 'friends with benefits' relationship? That's the sluttiest thing I've ever heard. You have to have no respect for yourself for that kind of relationship.
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