How to Get a Guy to Chase You over Text ๐Ÿ‘จ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ“ฑ๐Ÿ‘ฉ ...

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Playing flirty games ๐Ÿ˜— with a guy you like is half the fun of dating, especially in the early stages.

You don't want to keep playing games as things start to get more serious, of course, but in the beginning, sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do to get and keep his attention.2

This is especially true over text messages ๐Ÿ“ฑsince so many guys seem to forget how to reply.

Some of them even take great pleasure in making girls ๐Ÿ‘ฉ chase after them.

Bummer, right?

You can turn the tables, though.

With these handy tips, you can actually get a guy to chase you ๐Ÿƒ over text for a change.2

1. Short, Sweet Texts That Don't Go on Too Long

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KISS -- keep it short and simple.

Guys tend to really only pay attention to the first few lines before a case of tl;dr syndrome sets in, so try to get to the point as quickly as possible.

2. Keep the Text Ratio Even, 1 for 1

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This won't overwhelm him, which is terribly important if you want him to pay attention.

Moreover, he won't think that you're coming on too strong or texting too much.

Much more importantly, you won't worry about that, either.

3. Leave Him Wanting More

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This is why the first two tips are so important -- they keep things short, straight, and to the point.

At the same time, keep the details to a bare minimum sometimes.

Give him time, space, and opportunity to ask questions because, if you leave him wanting more, he most certainly will ask.

4. Don't Text Him Unless He Texts You

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Not always, obviously, that's silly, but I know most of us secretly keep a tally of how often certain people text us first versus how often we text them first.

I know, that's silly, too, but it happens.

Anyway, when you're trying to make him chase you through text instead of you texting him all the time, grit your teeth and put your texting thumbs on lockdown until he bites first.

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