How to Handle the Ex That Won't Leave Your BF Alone ...


Does your boyfriend’s ex refuse to leave him alone?

Maybe she calls him, stalks him on social media or is just generally around too much for your comfort.

So what’s a girl to do?

It turns out there’s a lot you can do in this situation!

1. Evaluate the Circumstances


You don’t want to panic when there’s an ex that won’t leave your boyfriend alone.

You need to be calm and approach the situation in a reasonable manner.

The first thing you want to do is evaluate the circumstances.

Are there good reasons for your boyfriend’s ex to contact him?

If they share a child together, then there’s always going to be some contact between them.

Do they have some old business they need to discuss such as a shared credit card or something similar?2

2. Observe Your Man

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This one is important.

Observe your man when his ex contacts him.

How does he act?

This can tell you if you have anything to worry about or not.

If he doesn’t like to talk to her and acts aggravated or frustrated when she contacts him then relax;

he doesn’t like it any better than you do.

However, if he lights up when she calls or is flirty toward her then you have a problem.

3. Answer His Phone☎

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This’s a strategy to try.

Maybe your boyfriend’s in the shower or talking to a friend and can’t get to his phone.

That’s a good time to answer for him.

Sometimes just letting an ex know that you’re in the picture can help.

It’s a reminder that he’s moved on.

4. Give It Some Time 🕞

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Sometimes the best thing to do is give it time, especially if it’s not happening constantly.

His ex may get the hint and stop contacting your boyfriend on her own.

She may just need to see that he’s with you now and you’re not going anywhere.

Patience can pay off in this situation.

That all depends on how extreme her actions are.2

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