How to Text a Guy First: the Best Tips 💌 📱😍 ...

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You're a take-action kind of girl, not willing to wait around for something to happen TO you — you want to be the one to make things happen! That's why you're dying to text the guy you like, but how? I've got some stellar you-text-him-first tips to share... ready? 😆

1. Get It Going

toy,

You've got his number, you know he likes you, it's time to act! Send him a short but direct text. If you haven't texted him before, identify yourself and say hi in a way you'll know he'll recognize it's you. For example, say, "Hi Hans! This is Anna from your math class. How did you do on that exam yesterday?"

Ask Questions... LOTS of Questions

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Matercater
Hi
Kristen McKendry
Go slow. Get to know each other. Really know each other; likes/dislikes, turn ons/turn offs, deal breakers & things you generally look for in a partner. Become best friends. It's how the best & lasting relationships start!
Kristen McKendry
1-word responses are him trying to be polite, but he's not into you like that. AKA, friend zone. If he gives a decent answer, that's better. BUT, if he gives you a good answer & then returns with a question back to you that is good!
Kristen McKendry
Spoiler Alert; even if you text him some big planned out text that's just supposed to sound natural, it won't. He knows why you are actually texting him. I do agree to ask a lot of questions, 'cuz you can gauge how he's feeling by him responses.
Kristen McKendry
Ok, so unless this is for girls in jr. high, my best advice is to just BE YOU! So many people try to pretend or act a certain way, etc., etc.
cocoxchanel
needed this
Kim
He's a human. He's your partner in crime. Talk to him like you would anyone else and show him how you love him through your actions.
Kim
Honesty is always the best approach- if you keep acting like you need a plan every time you talk you end up in a fake relationship and then after 8 months go by you'll find that you and he can't commu...
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