How to Win ✌🏼️ the Breakup πŸ’” ...

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When you separate from your partner, there's a common desire to try to "win" the breakup. Even after you and your ex are no longer together, the urge to impress him doesn't go away. In fact, it gets stronger. After all, if you "win" the breakup, then your ex will feel like a fool for letting you get away. Love shouldn't be a competition, but if you have your heart set on "winning" the breakup, then here are a few ways you can do so:

1. Never Drunk Text Him

It's normal to miss your ex, but you should refrain from drunk texting him. If you send him sloppy messages about how you wish things would've worked out, then he could lose respect for you. One drunk text could ruin your chances of "winning" the breakup, so stay sober (or at least keep your phone far away) if you want to keep your dignity.

Let Him See You Happy

Comments:

Sarah
But what if he wants to stay friends and refuses to acknowledge that the relationship happened unless you're really obviously upset by it...Β  That makes it kind of difficult to move on...
Sashna
I was with someone for 7 years. He broke up with me I became a flight attendant. That kept me busy and I forgot about him. 5 years later he finds out and asks me to marry him. πŸ˜‚ no chance and I won!
Surojit
Hi
Lizzie Hendrix
I was in a two year relationship he cheated on me and I am so in love with him now he is with the girl he cheated on me for and he loves her more than he loves me my heart is broken
Kerry
I am mad. I had just ended a difficult relationship 3 years ago. I met a person who seemed to be a friend only. but they kept persuing me. I realized they were involved in some things I couldn't handl...
Cheryl
Good article. Ladies - i agree - revitalize yourselves after a breakup - it's a powerful feeling to give you back your self confidence. Keep yourselves busy so there is less chance of contacting your ex. Remember that when one door closes, another opens.
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