15. Not Offering to Pay

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He picks up the check because it’s the gentlemanly thing to do.

However, you should at least reach for your wallet.

He might not want you to pay, but he’ll appreciate your offer.

Trying to Change Him


This is research being shared. No one needs to change anything. Just be aware of what most guys think about certain things. Not EVERY guy, most guys. Thank you @heather! Having this information is better than not knowing, whether others agree or not. This isn't an article about changingvoneself, it's a trove of information that can be used or not used. Either way knowledge is power. Thank you.
@Sarah Fox, no. Guys WILL like you for who you are if you are a kind human being. If one is a shallow, gossiping money seeker, others will not like you regardless of gender. @Heather merely points out behaviors that portray negative connotations to many men. Use the information to make a conscious decision about how you present yourself, rather than accidentally sending the wrong message. If you like long nails, keep the long nails, realizing most guys dont like them. Taken to the extreme I would tell a guy dont shower if you dont want to shower, but realize most women dont like stinky guys. Dont change... be aware.
@Stephanie Kate Gould-Hardwick, I think it is only important to know what others think. Dont change yourself unless you want to change, but be aware of how your behavior is seen by others. In other words, dont get caught off-guard. Be aware that some things you think guys like can turn many of them off. Guys should also be aware that thing they do can turn women off. It is better to know than be ignorant. If you have something in your teeth, @Heather would be a friend and tell you.
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