Whether you realize it or not, there are a number of responsibilities you have as a girlfriend. Once you get serious, it's not all fun and games. You have to be there for your partner, no matter what. It can be difficult to fulfill all of the responsibilities you have as a girlfriend, but you're capable of doing so. If you're not sure what you're supposed to accomplish, here are a few key things to keep in mind:
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1. Play Nurse
When he's sick, you're the one that should be at his bedside feeding him soup and making sure he takes his medicine. It won't be fun when you need to rush to find a bucket for him to throw up in, but it's one of the responsibilities you have as a girlfriend. You may not be married yet, but the whole "in sickness and in health" rule still applies.
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Caring for your ill partner creates a deep emotional bond, showing him just how much you really care. From fluffing his pillows to ensuring he stays hydrated, every little act of kindness won't go unnoticed. It's about being his comforter when he feels vulnerable, proving that love isn't just about the good times but about sticking together when things get tough. Brushing his hair back and placing a cool cloth on his forehead might seem like small gestures, but they can mean the world to him when he's feeling down. Remember, nurturing him now solidifies the foundation of your partnership for the future.
2. Encourage Him
If he's passionate about art, don't let him put down his paint brush. Never let him give up his dreams, even if his schedule becomes super busy. Always let him know that you're there for him, and that you truly believe that he can do anything he sets his mind to.
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Encouragement goes beyond just cheering him on; it's about providing the support he needs during tough times. If he's up late working on his art, offer to make him a cup of coffee, or simply sit with him, offering silent solidarity. Remind him of his past successes when he's feeling doubtful, and make sure to celebrate all his achievements, however small. Your belief in him can be a powerful catalyst for his creativity and perseverance, and your role in boosting his confidence can be a cornerstone in the edifice of his aspirations.
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Being supportive, communicating openly, showing affection, being honest, and respecting boundaries. It's all about creating a loving and healthy relationship!
Listen to him, cheer him on, be there in tough times, and celebrate his successes. Just be his biggest fan and let him know you’re on his team.
Honesty and openness! Share your thoughts, feelings, and worries. But also, make sure you're listening to him and understanding his perspective.
Affection shows you care and love him—whether it's through hugs, kind words, or little surprises. It strengthens your bond and keeps the romance alive!
Respecting each other's space and limits is crucial. It ensures mutual respect and helps each person feel comfortable, valued, and understood in the relationship.
3. Be His Therapist
You're the person that he should come to with his problems. You might not be able to fix them, but at least you can assure him that someone is there for him. It's scary to think you're alone in the world. Let him know that he's not, because you're right there with him to help him through whatever hardships he faces in life. Sometimes, all a person needs is someone to listen to their issues.
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Being a supportive partner extends to being a sounding board for his frustrations and fears. Remember, you don't need to provide solutions to every issue - sometimes, being present and attentive is enough. Acknowledge his feelings, validate his concerns, and offer encouragement. Your empathy can be a powerful tool in strengthening your connection. It’s also important to maintain boundaries and ensure that his reliance on you for emotional support is healthy and does not become overwhelming or one-sided. Balance is key – offer support, but also encourage him to seek additional help if necessary.
4. Provide Entertainment
You don't have to keep your partner occupied at all times of the day, but you should be a source of happiness for him. You two should know how to have fun together. It's one of the most important aspects of any relationship, so don't let each other get bored. You're there to spice up their life, not to keep it dull.
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Engaging in activities you both enjoy, whether it's a spontaneous dance-off in the living room, a competitive game night, or exploring a new hobby together, keeps the spark alive. Laughter and shared experiences are the glue that bond you as a couple. Remember to surprise him occasionally with an unexpected date or a thoughtful gesture. By creating lasting memories together, you ensure that your relationship remains vibrant and joyful.
5. Make Him Feel like He Matters
If you're in a healthy relationship, both of you will feel like you make a difference in each other's life. You might not need each other to survive, but you wouldn't want to live without each other. You help him when he needs it, and he returns the favor. It's a give and take relationship, just like it should be.
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To make him feel valued, take the time to appreciate the little things he does. Acknowledge his efforts and achievements, whether it's fixing something around the house or excelling at work. Listen to his dreams and fears, and provide support without unwarranted criticism. Celebrate his uniqueness and tell him how much you cherish his presence in your life. A genuine compliment can go a long way to boost his confidence and strengthen the bond you share. Remember, it's not about grand gestures but consistent, thoughtful acknowledgment of his importance to you.
6. Accept Him
No matter how weird his quirks are, you accept him, and even love him. It's hard to find people that you're completely comfortable with, so if he feels like you're someone he can be himself around, you're doing your job right.
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Embracing all of him – his early morning bed hair, the way he laughs too loudly at cheesy jokes, or his passion for collecting vintage comic books – makes him treasure your acceptance. It's the little imperfections that make him unique, and when you celebrate these rather than criticize, you build a sanctuary of trust. This love creates a powerful bond, one where flaws are not dealbreakers but endearing traits that deepen your connection. Remember, acceptance is a form of love that speaks volumes, assuring him that he's found a truly special place in your heart.
7. Be His Friend
The word "friend" is in "girlfriend" for a reason. You're not just the girl that he goes to to kiss and snuggle with--you're also the girl who is supposed to be his best friend. Laugh at his jokes when they're funny, and listen to his stories whether they're interesting or not.
If you want your relationship to last, you have to make sacrifices for your partner. You don't always have to do something extravagant or dire, but it's important to take time out of your day to make his brighter. How many months or years was your longest relationship?
Comments
Madi: Totally agree, but bruh, if things are rocky and you think this will fix things, let it go. I speak from personal experience when I say changing won't do anything but upset you.
Sab1: Pity most men don't do the same!!
Leila: Idk about being his therapist cus sometime they don't wanna talk about their feeling and you can't force him too. They need their space at times too. 2 1/2 years and still strong
Aliza: True. All these things are done because you care for your loved one and because you care, you're doing all of this. You want to make him feel loved and cared for ad there's nothing wrong with that.
Alex: 5 years. The most stressful times of my life. I was the girlfriend from heaven but he wanted more then I could give him. He was too controlling and manipulative. I've been single now for three years and I know know that I'm perfectly capable of being a great girlfriend again, if I meet the right guy.
eli: This seems like a post from a 1940s Cosmo...
isabella: thx
Happiness: I don stay long in relationships because I don't have all that make a man happy and I truthy need it just to keep my man
bonbon: I liked this article a lot. Thank you for posting it :)
Queenz: Nice 😊
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