7 Lies You Should Stop Telling Yourself when You Are the Other Woman ...


Sometimes love is blind, and you don’t always choose the person you’ll fall in love with, but if that person happens to be a married man, I believe you should know what are the things you shouldn’t do or what are the lies you should stop telling yourself when you are the other woman.

I know this is a very sensitive issue that may cause a lot of stir among you ladies, and you should know that in fact nobody wants to be the other woman in any relationship, but sometimes, these things just happen and those women might think they just don’t have any control over it.

Well, you couldn’t be more wrong!

Here are a few lies you should stop telling yourself when you are the other woman.

1. “I’m His True Love.”

Well, this is definitely one of the top lies you should stop telling yourself when you are the other woman.

You might think you are his true love or you might even feel this way, but you should probably think again.

Most affairs are amazing at the beginning because you don’t have all those responsibilities a normal couple has like bills, kids, mortgages.

But, just like every beginning, this will come to an end too and even if now you do believe you are his true love, think about the fact that at a certain point in his life, his wife was his true love and that didn’t stop him from cheating on her.

“He Will Leave His Family for Me.”


Fai P Wong
Wow so true :-) Feel blind all the whole time with a married man And finally get over it makes me feel release and happier
Aly O'Meara
@Adriana that's not true girl. It's one thing if things aren't even together... It's when the other person is unaware and still involved in the marriage. I wont go into it, but I was in a very similar situation and was pleasantly surprised how no one looked badly on me... They rooted for me!
Girls need to respect each other so that guys will respect girls more. Girls are their own worst enemies.... Respect yourself ladies and know your boundaries!!!!!
I think there are a lot of assumptions being made in these comments. I'm technically married but my husband left me and hasn't shown his face in 8 months. I don't even know where he is living. even though our relationship is over, and this article showed me what people might be thinking of ME if I got involved with someone else.
@Annamaria I can relate
There are the few exceptions out there, like Leann Rimes. Just saying.
@Aria it doesn't happen enough. And these men will keep cheating. I'm sorry that too many women accept this behaviour. And women will never know the truth cuz they always believe the cheating man.
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