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September 12, 2011 at 10:03 pm
Hey,I need help. I’m in grade nine and at my school the grade nines have grade ten leaders who are their “friend”,if you dont feel like talking to the teacher you can talk to them
and they come in a few days to play a game.Well one of my leaders is extremly gorgous, hes kind, funny, and we have the same style. I have a huuuuge crush on him! But I’m too shy to talk to him outside of the classroom(while him being my leader) and I have no idea how to get him interested… My friend offered to push me into him in the hallway because our lockers are across the hall from each other, should I let her do that? And if i do what should I say to the boy? I’m not really expericned with guys/flirting at all:/
September 15, 2011 at 5:33 pm
No, dont let her do that! Im in grade 12 (I think, i dont know how american schools work… im 17 anyway, my school calls it sixth form) but remember being your age, and honestly?
Im only just getting the hang of flirting! I figured it out by reading books on Body language. Dont let your friend push you, instead, try to look into his eyes as often as possible and hold his gaze for around 3 seconds, while youre talking to him, then smile and look away. After a while you can try staring into his eyes for longer (Im at the stage where im literally looking into my mans eyes for 2 minutes straight while we talk ;D)
There is a reason we get butterflies when staring into someones eyes, it stimulates the bodys production of a chemical called PEA, which produces feelings of love. So by making them feel as though they are in love, their brain goes “Hmm, i feel like im in love, therefore i must be in love!”
keep this up for a few weeks, and LIGHTLY BRUSH AGAINST HIM in the hall, dont get pushed, just that shoulder brush that happens when youre in a packed hall sometimes, and again, after a while move on to handing him objects, but the trick is that you’ve gotta hold it quite far up, so your hand is close to the bit he’ll be grabbing, or to hold smaller objects in the palm of your hand, either way, it forces him to touch your hand. Keep this up for a month or so, then pull away.
Brood rather than smile, look sad, say hi and bye and talk only when necessary. Dont have any kind of meaningful conversation, little eye contact, he should notice whats up and ask if your ok, be evasive in answering him, but eventually tell him that you kinda like him, and youre sorry, you just needed to get that off your chest so you can have a good friendship. This gives him the chance to either say he likes you back (Which he should by then) or if he doesnt (Not as likely, still possible) then you show him that you do value your friendship and you dont JUST want to get with him, which at least gives you a good friend.
Hope i helped! Even the eyes tip is magic, boys never used to notice me but since i learned about it i look cute boys in the eye and hold their gaze for 5-10 seconds, and soon i find that they cant keep their eyes off me! Im hoping to make the move on my boy and tell him how i feel in a few weeks, wish me luck, and i wish you all the best, go get em girl ;)
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