Things ๐Ÿ” No One Tells You ๐Ÿ™Š about Falling in Love ๐Ÿ˜ ...

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If you believe everything you've seen in romantic comedies, you'll think that falling in love will lead to your perfect, fairytale life.

If you believe everything you've seen on sitcoms, then you'll believe all marriages end with unhappy husbands and nagging wives.

Well, neither portrayal of love is completely accurate.

Here are a few things that nobody will tell you about falling in love:

1. It Doesnโ€™t Happen Overnight

It Doesnโ€™t Happen Overnight

You might develop feelings for someone overnight, but you won't be able to form a successful relationship overnight.

That requires a lot of effort.

In order to love your partner fully, you have to learn about their passions, hear about their interests, and see their flaws.

If you do all of that, and can still say that you love them, then you know that your feelings are legitimate.

Youโ€™re Going to Fight about Dumb Things

Comments:

Cricket
In the end, arguing is stupid! Get over that crap.
Milla
Love is what you define it to be.
Whitttey
Ok, thanks @Neecey Beresford
Penny's Writing Desk
Hmm I'm in a situation right now where my partner doesn't want kids but I do. At 30 it's scary thinking about leaving and starting from scratch again. Still love him madly :(
Neecey Beresford
@Whitttey, It's from New Girl.
Whitttey
What is #10's GIF from?
Splashhhh
No.6 im not sure about .
Slim
This was a great post by the way!
Slim
Love is love you either feel it in your heart or you don't.....but I do agree with the part where it takes more than just love to make it work Bc that is true love doesn't fix your finances, and you have to love yourself before loving someone else
RhondaJames
I don't want people to tell me these things. Love is an amazing journey and I want it all - the highs and the lows - to be a surprise.ย 
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