Possessive BF Traits That Are Scary, Not Sweet ...


Some men will treat you like a criminal, but will claim that they act that way out of love.

However, it doesn't matter how much someone cares about you, because there are some lines that they just shouldn't cross.

If they do, it's not a romantic gesture, it's a red flag.

Here are some possessive traits that you should consider scary, not sweet:

1. He Reads All of Your Texts

If your phone is sitting on the counter and buzzes, there's nothing wrong with your boyfriend looking to see who texted you.

However, if he demands to read every single conversation you have on your phone and on Facebook, he's overprotective.

It's a good idea for you to allow him to look through your phone occasionally, because it shows you have nothing to hide, but it's unhealthy for him to snoop through it every single time you leave the room.

2. He Tracks Your Movement

It's easy to track a person's movements, because every phone has a GPS inside of it.

However, if your boyfriend downloads an app to track your phone, or physically follows your car around to see where you're going, something is wrong.

He should trust you enough to let you live your life without having to keep tabs on you.2

3. He Doesn't Let You Talk to Men

It's natural for your boyfriend to want you to stay away from your exes.

However, he shouldn't get angry whenever you talk to a man, especially if it's just a cashier or a waiter.

If he gets mad at you for something so small, he has jealousy issues he needs to work through.

4. He Doesn't Let You See Your Friends

You're allowed to hang out with your friends without him.

If he gets mad whenever you leave the house without bringing him along, he's way too protective.

A healthy relationship requires you both to live your own separate lives.

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