I often think about the qualities of an amazing woman that can make her irresistible in the eyes of her dream man, or that could make her love herself even more. I know that every person is unique as well as every taste and preference is unique too, but still, there are certain qualities of an amazing woman that every men wants to find in his dream lady. Here is how I think the ideal woman would look like in the eyes of a man.
I believe that one of the most important qualities of an amazing woman is definitely her confidence. Every woman should possess this quality! I know that you may not feel very bold all the time, but with a little help you can achieve that in no time. A woman that is very self-confident, that trusts her abilities and exudes confidence all the time, is totally irresistible in the eyes of men everywhere. So, what are you waiting for? Show off this incredible quality of yours... I know it’s hiding somewhere within you!
This is another extremely important quality that every woman should possess in order to be true to herself and to attract the man of her dreams. Obviously, a lot of men want to be with a lady who is sincere and honest and who doesn’t like lying or cheating. Well, who wouldn’t? Even though most men want to create the impression that they’re really tough, they still can get hurt pretty easily and that’s why they want to trust the woman with whom they’ll be in a relationship. So, try to be sincere, and even though you may think that the truth will scare him, I think he’ll appreciate your honesty!
In my opinion, this is a must-have quality for every woman, whether she wants to attract the man of her dreams or not. Men need a lot of affection and care as well, but just like you, they may feel the need for space now and then too. So, that’s why I believe a man will be more attracted to a woman who’s independent, who has her own friends, hobbies, and especially her own life beyond the relationship that she’s in.
I think that every man wants to be with a woman who is understanding and nice, who’s not nagging him all the time and who's not trying to control his life. Also, a man would really love a woman that accepts him the way he is, that loves him for who he is and who doesn’t try to change him. I wouldn’t like someone try to change me either; I would gladly try to improve my behavior to make somebody happy, but that would be my choice.
I believe that most men prefer a woman who is approachable, who seems accessible like the girl next door, someone nice and gentle whom you can proudly introduce to your parents, and who’s not afraid of ruining her make-up if you touch her face. So, try not to seem too unavailable because this will only intimidate your dream man!
6. Sense of Humor
I guess since nobody likes someone too serious and uptight, it’s understandable why men like women with a great sense of humor. They want someone with whom they can laugh and have fun, because in every relationship there are a lot of other things that matter more than sexual attraction. Don’t worry that you might seem silly or childish; chances are that he is even more childish than you! Don’t be afraid to be yourself!
Most men are attracted to women who show they care about the people, animals or things around them. They want to be with someone who’s nice and caring and who can satisfy their need for affection because most of them are only big babies inside that tough exterior. So, don’t be afraid to show your feelings; just try not to smother him because, just like you, he still needs his freedom and that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you.
Men love a woman who can establish her own ideas, come up with new perspectives on issues and be inspired to create new things and ideas. It shows that you're more than just a pretty face, and men like to know that you don't get bored with the everyday life. Being creative also makes you happier, with or without a guy. Journal, cook, or whatever else it is you need to do to find a creative spark.
Men are powered by their ego, which is a known fact and a sex trait they have. You don't have to constantly compliment men all the time, but be encouraging! A man likes to know if he gets a promotion at work, makes a great meal, is having a hard time, or dealing with a life issue, that he has your encouragement and support. Tell him, leave him a note, or even send a card. He'll love you for it!
10. Make Him Things
Let me give you a little secret. Men love when you make them things. Dinner, small gifts, creative cards, etc. Even if your meal comes out less than stellar, men love to know that you cared enough to put some thought into making something for them. If they don't appreciate it, then they aren't for you to begin with, dear!
11. Smell Nice
While looks aren't everything, every man likes for a woman to smell nice. Use a great shampoo, wear a great perfume, or just use a fabulous lotion. Whatever scent you choose will be the one he associates with you, so make sure it's a great one! Every time he smells it, he'll think of you and go crazy with comfort and love.
Let's say you're having guests over, or a few of his friends stop by your place or his while you're both there. Be hospitable to them by offering something to drink, offering to pull out a snack, or even better, offering to have a group of friends over for dinner. Invite his parents over, or bring them something small and thoughtful when you visit them. Men love hospitality in women. It shows you have class, emotion and a heart!
13. Be Adaptable
I have to tell you, sometimes change is hard for me, especially last minute scheduling. Since I'm so organized, I like to plan my day out and enjoy it when it goes that way. Yet, men tend to favor a woman who can go with the flow and not freak out if things don't go as planned. I'm learning to adapt more to changes to give myself some peace, but also for my future husband's sake! Be adaptable and go with the flow. Life is short, hun!
14. Be Personable
Like hospitality, being personable is a great characteristic that men will like. Remember people's names, remember his favorite color, sports team, mom's name, and where he grew up. Be personable and intimate with all aspects of his life and be this way to other people. Men love to see you do something for someone that shows you're personable. It shows you have emotion and depth. For example, if you remember his mom's favorite flower or his sister's favorite jewelry line, surprise one of them with one of these gifts for a special occasion. Or, if you remember that his brother played on a specific team in college, bring up the topic at dinner. It will show you care enough about him and others to remember personal things they enjoy or are involved in.
15. Good Manners
This one just has to be noted, girls! Be sure you're a lady at dinner and have good manners. Chew with your mouth closed, use a napkin, and don't smack your gum. Saying "Yes ma'am" and "No sir" to necessary individuals is also a great manner to have. Men like manners, even if they don't use their manners themselves!
These are, in my opinion, the most important qualities every woman should possess to attract the man of her dreams. I know my list is kind of incomplete so that’s why I need your help. What are some other qualities a woman needs to win the heart of her dream man? Do tell!