The oldest of taboos and phenomenons can be found amongst the gossipers, the yentas, the mean girls and the grandmothers of our generation; in fact it exists solely amongst the little known but vital reasons to kiss and tell. Women have been told their entire lives not to kiss and tell, and to keep their womanhood under wraps, but the cliché "a lady should never kiss and tell" needs to finally be retired and buried with the rest of the many overused sayings that are firmly outdated. Because there many reasons to kiss and tell where you can stay sane and reputable in today’s society.
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1. He’s Worthy of Telling
Going on a date or having an awesome experience with a guy that you are so excited about you need to tell someone, if not anyone, or you will simply burst is something I know I can relate to on a regular basis. So why not share it with your best girl-friends!? No one says you can’t kiss and tell and sometimes you want to tell and get things off your chest because your date was just that amazing! This is one of the best reasons to kiss and tell.
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Kissing and telling can be a great way to share your dating experiences with your closest girl-friends. It can be a great way to get things off your chest and share the amazing moments from your date. There are many reasons why you should kiss and tell, such as to get advice, to get support, to boost your self-confidence, to celebrate a special moment, to get a second opinion, to spread the joy, and to remind yourself of the good times. When done in a healthy and respectful way, kissing and telling can be a great way to strengthen your relationships with your friends and to create a safe space for open and honest communication.
2. Needing Advice
Keeping your dating life under wraps is a personal choice, but I would never do that because I was worried about a reputation created by kissing and telling. And most of the time, when I tell my friends about my prospects, they offer some great advice that I can definitely use. If I had not told my friends or even my mother and grandmother about these experiences, I would never have reaped the rewards of their wise advice!
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Kissing and telling can have its benefits. It can open up conversations with friends, family, and even strangers. It can also provide valuable advice from those who have been in similar situations. Telling someone about a dating experience can often result in a different perspective or helpful tips. It can also be a great way to connect with those who care about you and want to help. Kissing and telling can also provide a sense of validation and support. Sharing your experiences can help to normalize them and make them feel less isolating.
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3. Fuming and Angry
Times when I’ve come back from a truly awful nightmare date or one night stand I definitely need to be consoled. Kissing and telling in this instance can be therapeutic, which is definitely classified under reasons to kiss and tell and can result in a fruitful learning experience for the future.
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Kissing and telling can be beneficial in certain situations. For example, if you had a bad date or one night stand, sharing your experience can help you process it and provide valuable lessons for the future. It can also be a way to get advice from friends and family. Furthermore, it can be a way to get closure or closure for someone who may have been hurt by the experience. Talking about it can also help you to move on from it and put it in the past. Sharing your experiences can also be a way to bond with friends and family, and to build stronger relationships.
4. He’s a Cheater
I’m sure we’ve all experienced at one point or another a date who is far from a prince or stand up citizen. Why men cheat or why men are the way that they are is a phenomenon studied by professionals and experts alike and there are many theories. However if you’ve unfortunately been saddled in a situation where your kisser is cheating on someone else, this is a great reason to kiss and tell mostly so that the woman he is cheating on will find out and end up in a happier circumstance.
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Cheating is a serious offense that can have long-lasting consequences for all parties involved. Cheating can cause emotional distress, lead to the dissolution of relationships and marriages, and even have legal repercussions. It is important to be aware of the signs of cheating and to take action if someone you know is engaging in this behavior. Some common signs that a partner may be cheating include changes in behavior, such as increased secrecy or spending more time away from home; changes in communication, such as less frequent contact or more evasive answers; and physical evidence, such as finding items that don’t belong to you in their possession. If you suspect that someone is cheating, it is important to talk to them about it and to seek professional help if necessary.
5. He Has an STD
I absolutely hate this reason but it is inevitably included in this list simply because it is just as important as the others. If you’ve managed to contract an STD from your lover, it is very important to kiss and tell so that his ex-lovers can become aware of the circumstance and act accordingly. This doesn’t necessarily mean break it off with your long-time boyfriend, but it is common courtesy to let other ladies know what they have been exposed to.
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Kissing and telling is not just about spilling secrets or gossiping, it can also be a way to protect yourself and others. In the case of an STD, it is important to inform your partner's ex-lovers so that they can take the necessary precautions to protect their health. It is also important to let your partner know that you will be informing their ex-lovers so that they can be prepared for any questions or inquiries. Furthermore, it is important to get tested for STDs regularly and to practice safe sex to reduce the risk of contracting or spreading an infection. Kissing and telling in this context is not about shaming or embarrassing but about protecting yourself and others.
6. Needing Validation
Experts often say this is the number one reason why people kiss and tell in general and I can definitely see why. After a night of serious kissing worthy of telling, most people need a friend or family member to tell them that they have done/are doing the right thing. So this is probably the most rewarding and useful reason to kiss and tell, so don’t hesitate to have someone validate you. But don’t worry you did the right thing!
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Kissing and telling can be beneficial in many ways. It can help to boost self-confidence, make someone feel special, and even lead to more meaningful relationships. It can also help to build trust and create a sense of security in a relationship. Furthermore, it can provide validation, which is especially important for those who may feel uncertain about their decisions. Kissing and telling can also be a great way to share experiences and learn from each other’s successes and failures. Finally, it can be a fun way to reminisce about past experiences and share stories with friends and family.
7. Confidence Boost
This is different from needing advice or validation because kissing and telling can lead to a feeling of complete elation, like you are the coolest and more suave person in the entire world. And something this isn’t such a great thing but most of the time this is awesome! Who doesn’t want to feel like a total superhero for kissing a handsome prospect, so feel free to share it.
Kissing and telling should be done with discretion, but if you haven’t tried it I’m sure these reasons to kiss and tell may have pushed you in a more immature but certainly beneficial and enjoyable direction in your dating lives. Can you think of any other reasons to kiss and tell?
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brianna_nichole77: I lost my Bestfriend :( bc we kissed (he's a boy)
Victoria: He's definitely a cheater!!!!
Nicole: Help! My crush recently asked me out, how could I say no? Anyway when I said yes he kissed me. Turns out he's a really bad kisser:( Any advice?
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