4. How Does Your Guy Get along with the Family?

Take your guy on a vacation with the family or to go stay with the family to see how he interacts with them.

Depending on your family dynamic, this could go a number of ways.

If all he does is badmouth your sister and talk bad about your uncle, those may be warning signs.

However, he may gently affirm comments you made about the family without being nasty, like agreeing that Uncle Tom will fall asleep after 3 beers.

If needed, can he pull himself (or you) away from the family drama, should it erupt?

Can he laugh at the odd characters found in every family tree (even his own), or does he get defensive?

Is Your Guy Adventurous or a Beach Bum?

Comments:

Heidi
AK so true, internal clock is a bigger deal than you'd think~ especially if you are the morning person. Traveling together can be a great way to see how compatibly adventurous you are, and how one another see the world with a hopeful eye & heart! Both parties learn about spontaneity as well as how a little planning can bring fun as well as relaxation to two people's (or a family's) life! Carpe Diem :)
AK
Different internal clocks and it is a pain!!
Sharon
So true.
Kayy
Great read! Me and my boyfriend always talk about travelling before we marry!
Ari
I thought this article was fantastic
Metallust
Brilliant!
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