7 Reasons Why People Cheat on Their Partners Even when Everything Seems Perfect ...


I’m sure many of us have been in a relationship where our partner hurt us, or betrayed us, which makes a girl crazy wondering of all the reasons why people cheat when everything just seems perfect.

I’ve been there not once, not twice, but three times, girls, and I’m here to tell you there are legitimate reasons why men and women cheat on their partner, even if they seem like nothing is wrong to begin with.

There are tons of possibilities for reasons why people cheat, but usually it boils down to one of these reasons below.

Cheating hurts, no matter what the reason, but it can at least help to understand why in the midst of the madness it creates in your heart.2

1. They’re Not Ready to Settle down

Even if someone may love another person, one of the main reasons why people cheat, is they are afraid to settle down and commit.

Even if they say that they are, inside they have a fear of being vulnerable enough to stay with a person long term, or they are afraid of only being with one person for a long period of time.

They may even date whomever they’ve cheated on you with for awhile, but eventually, usually they end up cheating on them too.

They’re Insecure


Buffy Coronado
@Fernnie , It's to bad you have accepted this and it is the norm in your relationship. Cheating is a cycle for a man like yours. Cheating is ALWAYS premeditated, preplanned, pre-justified, etc. all of those things require time and great effort. A good friend of mine was cheated on numerous times by a "man" who bought disposable phones, hid them in her closet (they lived together) and would keep the ringer off. When he would offer to take her dog out for a walk he would call these other women. That is foul and sickening. She tolerated it until she just couldn't do it anymore.
Buffy Coronado
I think the number one giveaway of a cheater or potential cheater is a persons constant need for validation and praise. Wives/girlfriends often stop validating because it's hard to validate someone when you TRULY know them. Married women can't compete with the "mistress" because the mistress doesn't really know him so she is able to make him feel amazing about himself. A cheater would welcome that over the truth about who he really is any day. Cheater/Liars spend a lifetime looking for the next thing or person to fulfill them. Avoidance of self is key to these people.
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