5. Maturity

Maturity is not a negative attribute.

It brings us many benefits, and allows us to offer a lot to a relationship.

That can be really attractive to a guy, which is why there are quite a lot who appreciate older women.

We are confident and happy in our skin.

This confidence shows, and guys love it!

A Lot to Offer


Heather Jensen
No! I think that, that is a great way to phrase it!
Older men are out of shape and not attractive. Their b@lls start sagging to their knees. It's a problem. Younger men are just better looking, more intelligent, more fun, and have more to offer to a woman that has her life together. Most women don't have their lives together and are broke, so they scramble behind older, less attractive "males". Better to date men your own age, younger men, or just go lesbian, as opposed to wasting your youth on older men.
Heather Jensen
Aww! That's so awesome! :)
@Charles, take down that doll pic freaking me out
Last year I meet this woman that I'd see every now I'd see jogging on the trail who'd always give a warm friendly smile which always made me feel good every time I saw her and her smile. I wanted to thank her for her smile so I bought 4 white roses and wrote a letter telling her how much I like her smile (I'm a introvert and a letter was the only way I could tell her and ask her if she'd like to get to know me) When I gave her them I wasn't expecting this but she me a big old kiss (first kiss) and several more that day. Sometime later she decided to get to know me and it appears we have a bit in common and she understands my introversion/being different and I learned she is about 9 years older than me. We'd see each other now and then for the first few months then I saw her only like 3 times over a several months. Last time I saw her was in October and she told me "I still have those roses you gave me" and I didn't know what to say/react at that moment until after we departed, but for some reason I feel she loves/likes me a lot because she kept them. I don't have her contact info, but I have a feeling she'll be waiting for me on that trail when it gets warmer. I've always felt out of sync with my own generation and that's why I'm glad I've meet someone older than me and I feel more connected with her than I'd feel with some other woman my age.
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