4. Lack of Communication

This is a difficult topic because people that say there is a lack of communication are often terrible listeners. They can have full conversations with a man and not take on board a single thing he says. He may come up with very valid reasons why you are wrong or mistaken, but you ignore it. He then continues to act in a way that annoys you, and you say, “You don’t listen” and “Why don’t we communicate?”

The truth is that you need to spend time each week listening to each other. If you have trouble making that work, then write each other a long email and send it to each other. Give a big report on what you did during the week, and the events between you both that you feel were important. It is harder to ignore a man, and harder for him to ignore you, if it is written down in the form of a letter.

He is Selfish in Bed


I agree, the article is mainly great except for the masturbation part. My husband and I talked about that and he doesn't masturbate at all while I do. He also thinks porn is "stupid."
Husna Shahalemi
Neecey I really like majority of the articles that you post. However, when you start generalizing men I don't like it so much. You don't know every single man out there. Not all men masturbate or stare at other women. Thank you.
Totally agree with @Gracie !
The part about all men masturbate really upsets me because I think that's wrong. You cannot generalise a whole sex of people. Just because they're men doesn't mean they're all the same just like not all women are the same so yeah I totally disagree with that 👌
This is great :)
Ladies, Be careful with #7! Not all men masturbate. All men do not do it twice per week. When I am in a relationship with woman I love, there is zero masturbation even when we are not physically intim...
Brilliant ! Thank you ' x
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