5. He is Selfish in Bed

The truth is that he may think he is great in bed, or you may be giving off signals that he is doing the right thing when he is not.

This is something you have to sit down and have a serious talk about.

If you are not reaching your big O, then you cannot let him go on thinking that you enjoy sex.

You have to sit down and talk about it and work out a plan of action, or you will have to live with a boring sex life.

He Lies and He Lies a Lot


Lil hez
@JP thanks for clearing that up. I think this article sterotyped men. And me personally my man watching porn in a relationship is an absolute not. Sorry but I want a man who respects and values me
(I meant we "can" climax but it's not like before, it's not interesting anymore doing it ourselves. My man touches me better than I do myself and same thing with him towards me. That's why I said we "can't" because it really is Not the same thing... it's also more exciting to do it this way as we fantasize more...)
I disagree too. Both me and my bf have big sex drives and we used to masturbate and watch porn before we got together but ever since we're together we honestly haven't felt the need to masturbate AT ALL or watch porn. When you got the real thing, porn is just boring and we don't like masturbating as we prefer to be touched. The truth? We can't climax on our own, it's just not worth it. We Completely satisfy each other. I believe that a sexuality that is free of inhibitions and without an apology, with the right partner, makes you reach heights that are so great, touching yourself becomes pointless. It's true for us anyway.
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