6. He Lies and He Lies a Lot

There are many reasons a man may lie while in a relationship with you, and part of you has to understand that you share the blame for it:

- If you nag and berate him for doing the same things he has always done, then his best defense is to lie about it.

- If he does not care about you and is using you, then he will lie to you.

- If you do not demand respect from your man, and if you do not earn that respect, then he will lie to you.

- If he is an addict of any shape or form, then he is going to lie to you.

You have to identify the reasons behind his lies and address them. Do not demand the truth because that is not the way you get it. If anything, demand respect, but be sure you earn it first. Controlling a man and trying to make him something he is not will simply make him lie more.

He Watches Porn on His Phone or Computer


I disagree too. Both me and my bf have big sex drives and we used to masturbate and watch porn before we got together but ever since we're together we honestly haven't felt the need to masturbate AT A...
I agree, the article is mainly great except for the masturbation part. My husband and I talked about that and he doesn't masturbate at all while I do. He also thinks porn is "stupid."
Husna Shahalemi
Neecey I really like majority of the articles that you post. However, when you start generalizing men I don't like it so much. You don't know every single man out there. Not all men masturbate or stare at other women. Thank you.
Totally agree with @Gracie !
The part about all men masturbate really upsets me because I think that's wrong. You cannot generalise a whole sex of people. Just because they're men doesn't mean they're all the same just like not all women are the same so yeah I totally disagree with that πŸ‘Œ
This is great :)
Ladies, Be careful with #7! Not all men masturbate. All men do not do it twice per week. When I am in a relationship with woman I love, there is zero masturbation even when we are not physically intim...
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