7. He Watches Porn on His Phone or Computer

Sorry ladies, but here is a home truth you will not like.2

All men masturbate, and all men do it at least twice per week.

Some men, including those in relationships, will have to do it once per day (depending on his sex drive).

Some men also need to do it after sex, even if it was fulfilling sex.

These are just truths that you need to know.

Men are not judging you or rejecting you when they look at porn.

Many men masturbate to women they wouldn’t dream of dating or even touching in real life.

The fix is to talk about porn with him.

Do not quiz him or accuse him, or try to investigate why he is a “pervert.” Talk about it to understand his need and drive to masturbate.

This will enable you to be more accepting and less judgmental.

It will stop you feeling it is an action against you and help you realize it is not a worrisome symptom of your relationship.

Talking is easy if you put in the effort and work in the right direction.

Happy couples tend to be great communicators.

Are there any issues you don’t believe can be fixed through talking about it?


Lil hez
@JP thanks for clearing that up. I think this article sterotyped men. And me personally my man watching porn in a relationship is an absolute not. Sorry but I want a man who respects and values me
(I meant we "can" climax but it's not like before, it's not interesting anymore doing it ourselves. My man touches me better than I do myself and same thing with him towards me. That's why I said we "can't" because it really is Not the same thing... it's also more exciting to do it this way as we fantasize more...)
I disagree too. Both me and my bf have big sex drives and we used to masturbate and watch porn before we got together but ever since we're together we honestly haven't felt the need to masturbate AT ALL or watch porn. When you got the real thing, porn is just boring and we don't like masturbating as we prefer to be touched. The truth? We can't climax on our own, it's just not worth it. We Completely satisfy each other. I believe that a sexuality that is free of inhibitions and without an apology, with the right partner, makes you reach heights that are so great, touching yourself becomes pointless. It's true for us anyway.
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