7 Rules in a Lesbian Relationship People Don't Understand ...

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No matter what type of relationship you are in, there are rules, but rules in a lesbian relationship are something that a lot of people don't understand. I've been in a gay relationship for 6 years and there are rules in a lesbian relationship that none of my friends get – but that's okay! I've got all of the rules below that can really help you understand how a lesbian or even a gay relationship works!

1. There Are No Gender Definitions

When it comes to lesbian relationships, one of the top rules in a lesbian relationship is that there are no gender definitions. Just because I work outside of the home and my partner works inside the home, doesn't mean that I am suddenly the 'man' in the relationship. It just means that I work outside and she works in. There aren't automatically roles that lesbian relationships follow, it depends on the participants.

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Heather Jensen
Hi Madalyn! :) Thanks for the comment! Will do -- I really appreciate your interest!
maddy
Please post more articles on being Bi Sexual and lesbian
maddy
My Girl friend and i started going out a month ago and i told no one about my being Bi Sexual .... Any way i feel the same way we laugh and hug and this week end we are going camping 4 our 1st date we...
Heather Jensen
Agreed! Thanks for sharing that! :)
Katie
Sex doesn't have to be a staple every night because it can't be. "Fondling" and sex toys do not = sex. Thats not sex. Just throwing in my two cents for you ladies :)
Lyndsie Robinson
Heather and I feel that way as well, it amazes me how many times people ask us if "it's still cheating if one of you sleeps with a guy." Um, yes? Yes it is!
Chelsea
My girlfriend and I believe that any relationship, no matter who you are or what sex you are, should have commitment. Cheating is cheating.
Heather Jensen
Hi Alletta! Thank you for this! :) A lot of people don't do that, they treat these relationships very different.
Heather Jensen
Aww! That's exactly what we do! :) My girlfriend and I are homebodies too, so we do a lot of sharing and experience a lot at home.
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