7 Rules in a Lesbian Relationship People Don't Understand ...

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No matter what type of relationship you are in, there are rules, but rules in a lesbian relationship are something that a lot of people don't understand. I've been in a gay relationship for 6 years and there are rules in a lesbian relationship that none of my friends get – but that's okay! I've got all of the rules below that can really help you understand how a lesbian or even a gay relationship works!

1. There Are No Gender Definitions

When it comes to lesbian relationships, one of the top rules in a lesbian relationship is that there are no gender definitions. Just because I work outside of the home and my partner works inside the home, doesn't mean that I am suddenly the 'man' in the relationship. It just means that I work outside and she works in. There aren't automatically roles that lesbian relationships follow, it depends on the participants.

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Sara
*same
Sara
People don't know that it's the sane LOVE as we know .
CyranoSCW
As for your "rules" question...I feel the same way you do. Being with one person means just that-one person. The way we see it is if you're doing/saying something of a romantic nature to another perso...
CyranoSCW
@Alletta Ferreira, I agree, lower drive doesn't hold up for everyone. Sex really doesn't have to be a staple in *any* relationship, gay or straight...it's a matter of what the two partners want.
CyranoSCW
I'm straight and married, but I enjoy reading about gay and lesbian relationships because it helps me understand my brother's and other friends' relationships better. I do have to ask, though...is t...
Heather Jensen
Aww! That's so awesome! :) I would definitely say that you should start telling people about you being bi -- when you are ready though.
Heather Jensen
Hi Madalyn! :) Thanks for the comment! Will do -- I really appreciate your interest!
maddy
Please post more articles on being Bi Sexual and lesbian
maddy
My Girl friend and i started going out a month ago and i told no one about my being Bi Sexual .... Any way i feel the same way we laugh and hug and this week end we are going camping 4 our 1st date we...
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