2. Not Every Relationship Has a Butch/Femme

Also, not every relationship has a butch lesbian and a femme lesbian.

Truthfully, a lot of people have that misconception about lesbians and it's simply not true.

In my relationship, we are just us, regular people who happen to love one another.

I am not a femme or a butch and neither is my partner.

Sex Toys

Comments:

mali
Hi, Sara, where from u, I'm Pakistani tan girl. ,
mali
hi"Madalyn, Lesbian love is very lusty,charming and unique. Man can never understand,the feeling lesbian love.
mali
@MadalynCriss,
Sara
*same
Sara
People don't know that it's the sane LOVE as we know .
CyranoSCW
As for your "rules" question...I feel the same way you do. Being with one person means just that-one person. The way we see it is if you're doing/saying something of a romantic nature to another person that you wouldn't do in front of your partner, you probably shouldn't be doing it at all. I know that's not a "catch-all", but it seems to be a rule common to any kind of relationship, same or opposite sex.
CyranoSCW
@Alletta Ferreira, I agree, lower drive doesn't hold up for everyone. Sex really doesn't have to be a staple in *any* relationship, gay or straight...it's a matter of what the two partners want.
CyranoSCW
I'm straight and married, but I enjoy reading about gay and lesbian relationships because it helps me understand my brother's and other friends' relationships better. I do have to ask, though...is the terminology different for men and women? If so, why? I just thought "gay" or "homosexual" could go for both men and women. I want to be sure I'm saying the right thing.
View all comments
Explore more ...