Rules of Attraction What to Know to Land Your Crush ...

By Holly

The male mind is just as complex as the female mind, which means it can be difficult to figure out what your crush is thinking. However, if you just want him to ask you out already, you can help him along by doing a few simple things. It can't hurt to encourage him to like you, so you might as well give it a go the next time you see him. Here's all you should know to land your crush:

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Daring Dates

Need an idea for a first date? Try doing something thrilling like skydiving or rock climbing. Even a game of laser tag could work for those of you who are less risky. Why should you go on such extreme dates? Because the adrenaline will make your partner more prone to finding you attractive. It's funny the way the body works.

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Dress in Red

Studies show that men find women wearing red more attractive than women wearing colors like blue and green. That means that you should buy a red dress to wear on your next date. It's better to be safe than sorry, so make sure you have the color in your closet.

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Have Average Intelligence

Men are most attracted to women with average intelligence. They don't want someone who is unable to name the seven continents, but they don't want Einstein either. Of course, that doesn't mean you should pretend to be smarter or dumber than you actually are. As much as men like average intelligence, they like genuine women even better.

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Sweet Smiles

Men find smiling women more attractive, even though women don't always find smiling men more attractive. That means that you should always have a smile on your face when you're around your crush. Not only will he think you're beautiful, but you'll feel much more confident. Even a fake smile will trick you into feeling happier.

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Always around

The more a man sees you, the more likely he is to develop a crush on you. That doesn't mean that you should stalk him so that you're always on his mind. It just means that you shouldn't be afraid to show up at the same parties as him and say hello when you bump into each other. The more you talk, the more chances he'll have to develop feelings for you.

Famous Quotes

To give oneself earnestly to the duties due to men, and, while respecting spiritual beings, to keep aloof from them, may be called wisdom.

Confucius
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Positives of Pets

Dogs really are man's best friend. If you have a dog with you, people are more likely to approach you. Plus, you'll feel more confident when you're walking around with your dog, because it gives you something special to show off. So if your BFF is a horrible wing woman, rely on your pet to do the dirty work for you.

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Peer at His Pace

When you like someone, you'll unknowingly match your pace to theirs. That means if you notice your crush slowing his pace to match yours, there's a good chance that he likes you. If you were just friends, he wouldn't mind being a step or two in front of you.

The heart is a funny thing. You never know what will cause your crush to develop feelings for you, but it can't help to use these tips to help him see how amazing you are. What other weird rules of attraction have you noticed?

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Have average intelligence? That's a terrible piece of advice to give to women.

This is ridiculous! I can't believe these articles actually get posted. Anyway the men I've been with have always said they've liked my intelligence. I think what they don't like is over-opinionated smartasses.

Guys don't like to feel intimidated by a girl's intelligence. So having an average intellect makes the girl seem more attainable. The goal for smart girls is to find smart guys who appreciate the intelligence and aren't put off by it.

Just be yourself if he's not attracted to you then he's probably not the one as you'll have to continuously behave in a mannerism that was false.. xx

You shouldn't be telling girls to dumb themselves down because guys are intimidated by smart girls..wtf is that. If a guy is intimidated by how smart I am and doesn't want to be with be cause of that fuck him. Intelligence is attractive acting dumb is stupid.

Ok I don't wanna hate on this post but don't listen to the "average intelligence" thing. Everyone has their own intelligence and you shouldn't change that for a guy. If he doesn't appreciate that, then you should go find someone who does.

Would a more intelligent girl not attract a more intelligent guy

Very true saying..💓

Okay so I manage the school track team and it was really windy so I was standing at the line timing and the wind picked up a lot and my crush ran by at like that exact moment he was running the mile so I was like that's gotta help and then he was like yeah if only I could take my shirt off and I was just thinking like wait what because we are both in advanced classes and athletic and stuff and he had told me before that he didn't like me like that and I was just like all sad and crap but I knew that that wasn't completely true we are now really good friends so I am hoping but still unsure

My reasons for that are because I'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who would be really attracted to very intelligent women. Also, if you have to consciously think about smiling more on a date, you probably aren't genuinely having a good time.

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