Vanilla sex consists of having sex in the same old positions at the same time of night. It's basic stuff, but after a while, it can be pretty boring. So here are a few sex tips for women who usually have vanilla sex, but want to branch out:
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1. Try a Toy
You don't have to try anything too crazy. Just buy a simple vibrator, so that you'll be able to experience a new sensation during sex.
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Sex toys can be a great way to spice up your sex life if you are looking for something new and exciting. Vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys for women, as they provide a unique sensation that can be both stimulating and pleasurable. Vibrators come in a variety of shapes and sizes, so it's important to find one that fits your individual needs.
When choosing a vibrator, consider the size, shape, and type of stimulation it provides. Some vibrators are designed to be used internally, while others are made for external stimulation. If you're not sure which type to choose, talk to a sex toy expert or do some research online to get an idea of the different types available.
In addition to vibrators, there are also other sex toys that can help you explore new sensations and experiences. Dildos are phallic-shaped objects that can be used for penetrative sex, while anal beads and butt plugs are great for exploring anal stimulation. Other sex toys, such as cock rings and sex dolls, can help add new elements to your bedroom play.
2. Shower Together
Instead of having sex in your bed again, you should have sex in your shower. Just be careful, because you don't want to slip.
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Shower sex can be a great way to spice up your sex life and add a little bit of excitement. It can also be a great way to get close to your partner and enjoy some intimate moments together.
When it comes to shower sex, safety should always come first. Make sure you have a non-slip mat in your shower, and use plenty of lubricant. This will help to reduce friction and make the experience more enjoyable for both of you.
It’s also important to take your time and be gentle with each other. Shower sex can be a bit awkward at first, so don’t be afraid to take it slow and enjoy the moment. Make sure to communicate with your partner, and let them know if something is uncomfortable.
If you’re looking for new positions to try, there are plenty of options. You can try standing positions, where one partner stands while the other kneels or sits in the shower. You can also try sitting positions, where one partner sits on the edge of the shower while the other straddles them.
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3. Buy Silk Sheets
This won't be a major change. However, it'll make sex feel a little more intense, because you'll have a silky material against your skin.
4. Have Sex in a New Room of the House
The bedroom isn't the only place where you should be having sex. You should be having sex on the living room couch and on the kitchen counters.
5. Read Erotic Novels
The more you read about sex, the more you'll know about it. An erotic novel might teach you moves that you never would've thought of on your own.
6. Watch Porn Together
You don't have to watch it alone. You can try watching it together to see what turns you on the most.
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Watching porn together can be a great way to spice up your sex life and explore new fantasies. Not only can it be a fun and exciting way to get aroused, but it can also help you and your partner discover new things about each other.
Porn can be a great way to introduce new elements into the bedroom. Watching porn together can help you and your partner become more comfortable discussing what turns you on. You can talk about what you like and don't like, and it can help you both become more open about your desires.
When watching porn together, it’s important to be respectful of each other’s boundaries. Make sure to talk about what kind of porn you’re both comfortable watching, and don’t pressure each other into anything you’re not comfortable with.
It’s also important to remember that porn isn’t real life. While it can be enjoyable to watch, it’s important to remember that it’s not an accurate representation of sex. Porn often depicts unrealistic standards of sex and body types, so it’s important to remember that it’s not a reliable source of information about sex.
7. Striptease
Even if you have low confidence, you should feel comfortable enough around your partner to take off your clothes in front of him. If you aren't, then maybe he'll agree to give you a striptease instead.
8. Give Each Other Massages
Ask your partner to strip off all of his clothes so you can rub lotion across his naked body. It's a great form of foreplay.
9. Longer Foreplay
Speaking of foreplay, you should engage in it for a longer amount of time than usual. A few extra minutes can make a major difference.
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Foreplay isn't just a prelude; it's an essential part of the entire experience. It’s the perfect time to explore each other's bodies, find out what makes your partner tick, and really get the engines revving. If you're used to a quick warm-up, push the boundaries a bit. Use this extended time to kiss, caress, and whisper sweet nothings or perhaps something a tad naughtier into your partner's ear. Not only will this amplify your desire, but it can also lead to a more intense and satisfying main event. Remember, anticipation can be an incredible aphrodisiac.
10. Put on a Blindfold
You don't actually have to buy one. Just use a scarf or a tie.
11. Try New Positions
If you can't think of any new positions, there are plenty of places on the internet where you can look for ideas.
12. Bring Food into Bed
If you don't mind cleaning up your sheets, you can incorporate whipped cream into sex. Just don't get it on your genitals.
13. Buy a Sexy Board Game
There are plenty of adult board games out there. If you can't think up ideas of your own, you can steal the board game's suggestions.
14. Dirty Talk
This isn't as hard as it seems. All you really have to do is tell him what you want him to do to you and what you want to do to him.
15. Have Sex in Front of a Mirror
Stand in front of your bathroom mirror the next time you have sex. It'll be fun to look at yourselves from new angles.
16. Masturbate Together
You don't have to masturbate when you're alone in bed on the nights that he's too busy to hang out. You can do it together for a change.
17. Light Spanking
Don't hurt each other. Just give each other a few light smacks.
If you follow these tips, then your sex life will never be boring again. Do you prefer vanilla sex or exciting sex?
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