If you're sexually active, then your period really sucks. Not only does it cause cramps and backaches, but it also means that you can't get frisky with your man for an entire week--or does it? Believe it or not, there are a few sexy things that you two can still do while you're on your period. Here are a few ideas that you should try this month:
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1. Shower Sex
You don't have to wait until your period is over to have sex. It sounds icky to sleep with him while you're bleeding, but if you do it in the shower, you won't have a mess to clean up. Besides, having sex can actually reduce your cramps and make your period end quicker than usual. So really, it's a better idea to have sex during that time of the month than to wait it out.
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Shower sex can be a great way to get intimate during your period. Not only is it clean and mess-free, but it can also help reduce cramping and make your period shorter. In addition, shower sex can be a great way to spice up your relationship. It can add a new level of excitement and pleasure to an otherwise mundane activity. Plus, the warm water can be soothing and help relax your muscles. So if you're looking for a way to keep things hot while you're on your period, shower sex is definitely worth a try.
2. Oral
You probably don't want him going down on you while you're on your period, but you can still go down on him. Even though he'll be the one receiving all of the pleasure, he'll owe you one. That means you're in for a treat as soon as your period ends. He'll have to make it up to you.
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While your cycle might be a time for some off-limits activities, oral pleasure doesn't have to be a one-way street. Just because he might not be venturing downtown during your time of the month doesn't mean you can't show a little love to his erogenous zones. Get creative with your tongue and lips, and take this as an opportunity to explore what makes him moan. Remember, it's all about taking turns and keeping the intimacy alive—in every phase of your cycle. And when it's his turn to reciprocate, you can anticipate a very attentive session dedicated just to your pleasure.
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3. Masturbate Together
If you don't want him touching you, you can just touch yourself! Sit together on the bed and masturbate at the same time that your boyfriend masturbates. Seeing you moving your hands will turn him on, and seeing him should do the same for you. That way, you'll both orgasm, but you won't have to worry about getting blood on him.
4. Make-out
There's nothing wrong with an old fashioned make-out session. After all, kissing doesn't have to lead to anything. You two can just swirl your tongues around until you're ready to cuddle and fall asleep. Going a few days without having sex can be healthy for your relationship, because it'll remind you two that you're together for more than physical reasons. You enjoy each other's personalities as well--or, at least, you should.
5. Take Sexy Pictures
If you want to turn him on, you can take sexy pictures of yourself and send them to him. Knowing that he'll have to wait a few days until he can touch your body will make him go crazy. When you finally have sex again, it'll be intense, because the wait will make every touch feel like heaven.
6. Phone Sex
Instead of having penetrative sex, you two can have phone sex. Basically, you can call him up and tell him everything that you want to do to him. If you're afraid that someone might overhear you talking, then you can sext him instead. It'll keep things hot and heavy, even if you're not planning on sleeping with him until your period comes to an end.
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Phone sex is a great way to keep the spark alive, even when you're on your period. It's a good way to express your desires without having to worry about penetrative sex. You can call your partner and tell him what you want to do to him. If you don't want anyone to hear you, you can sext him instead. Sexting is a great way to keep things hot and steamy, even when you can't physically be together. You can also use Skype or FaceTime to have a more intimate experience. Phone sex can also be a great way to relieve stress and feel connected to your partner, even when you can't be together.
7. Grind
Remember back before you were sexually active, when you used to grind on your partner with all of your clothing on? It wasn't as fulfilling as sex, but it was still pretty fun. That's why you should do it again! It'll help you get rid of some of your sexual frustration.
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Grinding is a great way to keep the sexual tension alive between you and your partner even during your period. It is a form of physical contact that can be both intimate and playful. It can involve both partners dancing close together, with one partner pressing their body against the other's. It can be done with or without music, and is often done with clothes still on. It can be a great way to get close to your partner without having to worry about any messiness. Plus, it can be a great way to relieve sexual frustration and build up anticipation for when you can have sex again.
8. Cuddle
Cuddling is extremely intimate, even with clothes on. If you want to be close to your man without all the mess, simply cuddle on the couch or in bed while watching a movie. Even having an in depth conversation while cuddling will make you two feel closer.
9. Anal
Well, here's an alternative to sex that's not for the faint of heart. If you don't want the fuss of sex on your period this is always an option. Be sure to take the necessary precautions if you haven't done it before though, otherwise, you'll wind up in a world of pain.
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Anal sex is a form of sexual activity that can be enjoyed by both partners, regardless of the woman's menstrual cycle. It is important to remember to use protection and lubricant when engaging in anal sex, and to take the time to discuss any potential risks and concerns beforehand. Additionally, it is important to take things slowly and to stop if either partner experiences any pain or discomfort. Lastly, it is important to practice good hygiene before and after anal sex to avoid any potential infections.
10. Throw a Towel down
If your man's not squeamish and you both just can't avoid it, throw an old towel down and go at it. Condoms are a great protectant to keep him from unnecessary mess. Keep in mind though, now is not the time to be on top. Laying down will prevent some of that mess.
Your period is natural, so you shouldn't be embarrassed about it. Have you ever had sex with your boyfriend while you were on your period?
Comments
Katya: Yes and it was the best Sex of my life
Gennivia: Yes I have and he is cool with it
Janay: Wow never heard that having sex on a period can create Std ofcourse if he has one or vise versa rather you have your period or not you will contract an std and I use to be grossed out but it's not as bad as you think
Allyfedor: Sometimes I do find myself horny on my period, but a lot of the times I feel like I'll gross out my bf with it
Claire: You can catch an std anytime!? Not just on your period. A period does not create an std!! Wear protection guys
MellyMoi: Is it true if you have sex on your period, you can catch an STD without a condom? Or by using a condom too?
Yessi: It's better not to have sex while your in your period you can catch an std .
Gae: Plenty of people enjoy period sex! Hormones are raging and orgasms can relieve cramps. Just lay down a black towel and put on a condom
Issi: It is just disgusting!!! You can wait until your period is over!!
Mayagee: Excuse you! How do u touch yourself with blood all over
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