You don't want to date anyone who disrespects women. Of course, a guy's feelings are not always obvious. Sometimes, it's subtle. According to Gurl, here are some super small signs that a man is actually a sexist:
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1. He Says “you’re Not like Other Girls."
What's wrong with other girls?
2. He Puts down Other Girls to Compliment You
He should be able to compliment you without insulting the other people around him.
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3. He Hates Your Guy Friends
If he assumes every guy wants to hang out with you because they want to sleep with you, and not because they actually like your personality, he views women as sex objects.
4. He Has Ideals about What “real Men” and “real Women” Are Based on Outdated Stereotypes
It's the twenty-first century. He needs to get with the times.
5. He Uses the Words “pussy,” “bitch,” and “girl” as Insults
It shouldn't be an insult to be called a girl. It should be a compliment.
6. He Mis-genders Transgender and Non-binary People
This isn't just sexist. It's hateful, disrespectful, and ignorant.
7. He Slut Shames You
If you want to sleep around, you're allowed to do so. It's your body.
Do you know any men like this?
Comments
Susie: I agree! This article is great! No one should stand for not being treated correctly, now we know what signs to look for! Thanks😃
TorriWyatt: If a man does 4,5and 6 he certainly is not a nice guy at all! I'd get as far away from him as possible!
Cheri: This doesn't make sense
Emily: This article is a disgrace. The majority of this article is looking for sexism where it doesn't exist. How the hell is saying that "you are not like other girls" a bad thing? It can just mean that you have a certain quality that he finds special. And besides, I'm sure PLENTY of girls say the same thing about guys. Secondly, what about him not liking your guy friends? That is JEALOUSY not SEXISM! COMPLETELY different! Now I stand for being treated fairly, but like Bavi said, let's not misuse the term gender equality. Don't go looking for it where it doesn't exist.
Bavi: I wonder why all your articles have so much hatred for men and relationships. Feminism is not about doing wat men does its about doing what's really right. None of us are going to look up at a guy who sleeps with many women its the same way for them. Lets not misuse the term gender equality
Faiii: #4 is a NO NO. But there's nothing wrong with #1, it's just a matter a preference just like us women have preference.
Katie: I'm sure this article is about to get slammed with hate, but I want to thank you for saying each and every one of these things.
Bunny: You always get gut feelings anyway ...
RE_9988: My ex was exactly like that!! And he tried to force me to kiss him! He's a goner for sure
Inna: Girls say things like "You're not like other guys" to men. It's not really that bad. There is such a thing as typical where both genders are concerned.
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