2. You Feel the Need to Change Him

β€œTake me as I am” goes in both directions. It's one thing to try to get him not to wear the shirt with the naked women on it when your mom comes over. That's a given.

However, it's something completely different if you're trying to get a vegan to share your love of bacon or a β€œcity boy” to eat fried squirrel. If you want him to accept you the way you are, you need to be willing to do the same for him. Think of it this way - if he's not what you want, why are you with him?

You're Not at the Same Place in Your Lives

Comments:

Sarah
Sounds about right
Anew
Thank you for number 4 :)
Anna Yumeco
good advice ??
Indie Sophie Morse
Sound about right it sound like my ex!
Yasmin
😔
Tina
Spot on
Misty
Good tips!
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