Being shy gets in the way of so much – and I say that as a shy girl whose bashful personality has left her on the fringes of many things. Shyness can stop you from so much, but it really interferes with your love life. Have you ever been faced with this conundrum? You totally dig someone and you think he digs you, too, but you're way too shy to come out and ask. Just the thought of asking him outright simply mortifies you! So what do you do? Wonder forever? Not at all – just keep reading! If you spot the crush of your dreams doing any of the following things, you'll know he's into you – and you won't have to ask a single question!
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He Wants to Spend Time with You Every Day
When someone goes out of their way to spend their free time with you, it means something. Something pretty special, in fact.
He Always Tells You if He's Running Late
That's considerate. That's special, too.
He Likes Learning New Things about You
Someone who takes the time to get to know the real you is pretty great. If you know someone who's interested in learning all about you, take it as a sign.
Someone genuinely fascinated by your likes and dislikes, your past experiences and future dreams, is someone worth cherishing. It means every detail of your story matters to him, and he's in for the long haul. Whehter you're sharing your quirky hobbies or waxing poetic about your favorite books, his eagerness is palpable. He wants to understand you—not just the surface-level facts, but the profound and intricate layers of your personality. This attentiveness is a silent whisper of his love for you.
And He Wants You to Learn about Him
Does he volunteer information – hopes, dreams, favorite books, the movies he loves? Ding, ding, ding!
In Fact, He Shares a Lot
It might seem rude for someone to talk about themselves a lot, but it can actually be a sign of interest. Even though it can come off as a little arrogant or egotistical, it's really just a way for a guy to prove he's “worthy,” so to speak.
He Texts You First
Or calls, or emails … you get the picture. Not only is this a good sign, but it's very encouraging when you're shy. It can even make you feel more comfortable about initiating conversations.
When he reaches out first, it signifies that you're on his mind. It's a classic sign of affection that cuts through the guesswork, especially for the shy girl who might not want to make the first move. Him initiating contact suggests that he's thinking about you and wants to ensure communication lines are open. It’s both a subtle and clear message that he values your connection and is eager to keep the conversation going – indication that he might just be head over heels for you.
He's Cool with Your Pace
Whatever you're comfortable with, he's comfortable with – and if you're uncomfortable with something, he respects that
Your relationship is a marathon, not a sprint, and he knows it. Whether it's waiting for that first kiss or holding off on moving in together, his patience proves he values your comfort over his own convenience. There's no pressure, no rush. When you signal you're ready to take the next step, he's right there with you, offering a reassuring smile. This shows a level of emotional maturity that speaks volumes about his feelings for you. He's in it for the long haul, cherishing every moment at the pace you set together.
He Loves Just Hanging out
Your Friday night plans frequently consist of binge watching and snacking.
He Makes Social Situations Easier
He puts you at ease when you're out at any social event, so you actually enjoy them.
He Makes You Laugh
Always a great sign. Bonus points if you share a similar sense of humor!
He Tries to Understand Your Moods
That's the mark of a keeper. Anyone who does that truly cares about you.
He's Happy to Go out or Stay in
Because you know you'll have a great time together no matter what you do.
Everything Feels Comfortable
Everything just comes easily. That's a big thing for shy people. We like feeling comfortable.
He's Kind of Protective of You
Especially when you're in situations that make you feel bashful or awkward.
He Acts as Nervous as You Feel
Oddly, this can sometimes make you feel better – knowing someone is as tangled up and twisted as you are, you know?
You Include Each Other in Future Plans
And it just comes naturally.
You Just Feel It
Sometimes, nobody needs to say a word.
Shy stalkers, do you recognize any of these signs? Is there someone special who maybe feels the same way you do?
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