17 Signs He's in Love for Girls Too Shy to Ask ...

By Lyndsie

17 Signs He's in Love for Girls Too Shy to Ask ...

Being shy gets in the way of so much – and I say that as a shy girl whose bashful personality has left her on the fringes of many things. Shyness can stop you from so much, but it really interferes with your love life. Have you ever been faced with this conundrum? You totally dig someone and you think he digs you, too, but you're way too shy to come out and ask. Just the thought of asking him outright simply mortifies you! So what do you do? Wonder forever? Not at all – just keep reading! If you spot the crush of your dreams doing any of the following things, you'll know he's into you – and you won't have to ask a single question!

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He Wants to Spend Time with You Every Day

He Wants to Spend Time with You Every Day When someone goes out of their way to spend their free time with you, it means something. Something pretty special, in fact.

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He Always Tells You if He's Running Late

He Always Tells You if He's Running Late That's considerate. That's special, too.

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He Likes Learning New Things about You

He Likes Learning New Things about You Someone who takes the time to get to know the real you is pretty great. If you know someone who's interested in learning all about you, take it as a sign.

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Someone genuinely fascinated by your likes and dislikes, your past experiences and future dreams, is someone worth cherishing. It means every detail of your story matters to him, and he's in for the long haul. Whehter you're sharing your quirky hobbies or waxing poetic about your favorite books, his eagerness is palpable. He wants to understand you—not just the surface-level facts, but the profound and intricate layers of your personality. This attentiveness is a silent whisper of his love for you.

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And He Wants You to Learn about Him

And He Wants You to Learn about Him Does he volunteer information – hopes, dreams, favorite books, the movies he loves? Ding, ding, ding!

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In Fact, He Shares a Lot

In Fact, He Shares a Lot It might seem rude for someone to talk about themselves a lot, but it can actually be a sign of interest. Even though it can come off as a little arrogant or egotistical, it's really just a way for a guy to prove he's “worthy,” so to speak.

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He Texts You First

He Texts You First Or calls, or emails … you get the picture. Not only is this a good sign, but it's very encouraging when you're shy. It can even make you feel more comfortable about initiating conversations.

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When he reaches out first, it signifies that you're on his mind. It's a classic sign of affection that cuts through the guesswork, especially for the shy girl who might not want to make the first move. Him initiating contact suggests that he's thinking about you and wants to ensure communication lines are open. It’s both a subtle and clear message that he values your connection and is eager to keep the conversation going – indication that he might just be head over heels for you.

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He's Cool with Your Pace

He's Cool with Your Pace Whatever you're comfortable with, he's comfortable with – and if you're uncomfortable with something, he respects that

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Your relationship is a marathon, not a sprint, and he knows it. Whether it's waiting for that first kiss or holding off on moving in together, his patience proves he values your comfort over his own convenience. There's no pressure, no rush. When you signal you're ready to take the next step, he's right there with you, offering a reassuring smile. This shows a level of emotional maturity that speaks volumes about his feelings for you. He's in it for the long haul, cherishing every moment at the pace you set together.

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He Loves Just Hanging out

He Loves Just Hanging out Your Friday night plans frequently consist of binge watching and snacking.

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He Makes Social Situations Easier

He Makes Social Situations Easier He puts you at ease when you're out at any social event, so you actually enjoy them.

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He Makes You Laugh

He Makes You Laugh Always a great sign. Bonus points if you share a similar sense of humor!

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He Tries to Understand Your Moods

He Tries to Understand Your Moods That's the mark of a keeper. Anyone who does that truly cares about you.

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He's Happy to Go out or Stay in

He's Happy to Go out or Stay in Because you know you'll have a great time together no matter what you do.

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Everything Feels Comfortable

Everything Feels Comfortable Everything just comes easily. That's a big thing for shy people. We like feeling comfortable.

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He's Kind of Protective of You

He's Kind of Protective of You Especially when you're in situations that make you feel bashful or awkward.

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He Acts as Nervous as You Feel

He Acts as Nervous as You Feel Oddly, this can sometimes make you feel better – knowing someone is as tangled up and twisted as you are, you know?

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You Include Each Other in Future Plans

You Include Each Other in Future Plans And it just comes naturally.

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You Just Feel It

Sometimes, nobody needs to say a word.

Shy stalkers, do you recognize any of these signs? Is there someone special who maybe feels the same way you do?

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