11 Signs That Prove He's Way Too Needy ...

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Ladies, we have all dealt with that poor boy who doesn't see the signs that he is too needy.

That persistent calling, showing up to see you uninvited, and hanging out as a constant third wheel is a major turn off.

All these major clingers want is to just be around you!

But who wouldn't?

Here are some signs that he is too needy:

1. He Gives You Ultimatums

Let me start by saying you are an amazing and beautiful female inside and out.

Why else do you think that guy fell for you in the first place?

The problem is he's now making you choose between him or anything else going on in your life.

Your womanhood is powerful, and when a guy is trying to take that from you, it's a sure fire sign he is too needy.

Men will either make you choose between their feelings or yours and if you don't pick theirs, then they make you feel like you're in trouble.

Ladies, this is not a man you want in your life.

You want a guy, who loves the fact you have your own independence.

He Tags along Everywhere

Comments:

Heather
Totally true! If someone is really, really jealous all of the time, it's hard to be with them. They can come off controlling! :) Thanks Lovlr!
Lovlr
Being sickening jealous is the best sign if you ask me, i mean really stay away from a green man.
Heather
Thank you Brittany!! I love answering the posts! Definitely keep commenting and reading! ;)
Brittany Mackenzie Joiner
@Heather, Thank you so much. I love this site, its awesome, and I love that you can give your input. AWESOME!
Heather
Thank you Brittany! Agreed! It's hard if the person that you are dating is so into everything you are doing, they don't have their own life. You want someone that can be by themselves and not be completely dependent on you. :) Welcome to AWS!
Sheila
Hey Brittany, I guess a balance would be fantastic! I want my boyfriend to be involved in my life and want to do things with me, at the same time, I don't think I could handle seeing him every single day. But like you said, everyone wants something different from a relationship :) Thanks for stopping by hun!
Brittany Mackenzie Joiner
My thing on this topic is, its simple, girls do want someone who wants them back. Your going to get in fights over stupid things constantly, you are two different people. Thats the point, to find someone who is what you aren't and you to be what they aren't. No one wants to date or be with someone who is just like them. You dont want someone needy, but decide what you want, what you want them to do in certain things. Not everyone is the same, someone could want a constant call or "texter" to give them the assurance that he/she isn't doing anything you wouldn't like; also wanting to see you...isn't that a good thing? I dont want to be with someone who wants to be somewhere else but with me, but you do need to have independence. (your own life) so when he/she is busy and cant be with you, your not sitting on your couch whining about how you have nothing to do. Great post!
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