13 Alarming Signs He Could Be a Player ...


Are you worried that you’re not going to be able to see the signs he’s a player?

That has got to be pretty frustrating.

Well, worry no more!

This article should give you a few of my best tricks to tell if your guy (or want-to-be-guy) is really into you, or he’s just playing with your emotions.

So here are my top 7 signs he’s a player!

1. He Never Calls

Most people would rather text than call nowadays, but that special someone should want to call to hear your voice!

If he doesn’t call very often, that’s one of the bad signs he’s a player.

If he makes excuses via text like “I’m busy” all the time, then he doesn’t really care about communication -- and communication is key.

If he’s careless with that, there may be some other lady he’s not calling too.

Lack of Transparency


I need some advice. I fully admit I can get jealous of him having female friends, but he does have a lot of them. If I say anything he tells me I don't trust him. I know he has had one female friend over to his place, but won't admit it to me. He gets so angry and defensive, yet he says its because I bring it up so much.
Amanda Bui
@Waverly, a lot of guys date more than 1 girl at the same time. So, you should give yourself more option by doing the same thing. Don't settle on anyone until the guy has proven to you he's the one, then u can drop all the guy after. Just go out and have fun. Don't take anything seriously. Those player will feel play once you dropped them for a good guy. They don't know what hit them, cuz they just got play at their own game.
@Isabela if you like him too then you should ask him
How do you deal with players
Hey people, I really need advice..it's been about a month that I started hanging out with this guy and well a couple of weeks ago it just became normal for us to cuddle,I've started to really like him and he's already tried to kiss me twice but he hasn't asked me out,he told my best friend he was going to do it a couple of weeks ago but he wasn't sure if I had "friend zoned" him,what do I do? Is he just flirting arround?..
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