What are the biggest signs a guy is secretly in love with you?

Oh, you'll notice he gives you extra attention, smiles a lot around you, and maybe even gets a bit jealous. He might also be super supportive and always there when you need him.

Why won't a guy just say he's in love?

Guys can be shy or scared of ruining the friendship. They might fear rejection or not be sure if you feel the same way, so they keep it to themselves.

How do I know if he loves me secretly if he doesn't say it?

Look for consistent actions. If he's always making an effort to spend time with you, remembers little details about you, and seems genuinely interested in your life, those are strong signs.

Is it possible he doesn't even realize he's in love yet?

Totally possible. Sometimes feelings sneak up on people. He might act differently around you and not even know why.

Should I tell him my feelings if I think he's secretly in love with me?

That's a tough call! If you feel comfortable and confident, you could drop some hints or even tell him how you feel. It might encourage him to open up too.

Signs He's Secretly in Love with You but Won't Say It ...

Everyone wants to find that ideal guy, someone perfect to share life with! Even when you think you've found him, you might hold back your feelings until you know he feels the same. It's hard to put your heart on the line and risk getting hurt, which sucks! Luckily there are some secret signs that he's in love that will reassure you of your feelings. Keep reading!

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1. His Eyes Are Talking 👀💗

face, black and white, white, black, person, It's all in the eyes! The way he looks at you, how you catch him staring at you from across the room, and how he looks intently and with focus deep into your eyes when you speak- this is a clear sign he's really, really into you!

2. He Promptly Responds to You ✍🏼🗣

white, black, black and white, person, image, Your guy will let you know how much you mean to him by his consistent and prompt responses to you. He'll text you back right away, he'll be the first to respond if you're together in a group, and if you ask him a question, he will be keen on answering you! It's important you recognize his deep interest in never keeping you waiting.

Frequently asked questions

: Oh, you'll notice he gives you extra attention, smiles a lot around you, and maybe even gets a bit jealous. He might also be super supportive and always there when you need him.
: Guys can be shy or scared of ruining the friendship. They might fear rejection or not be sure if you feel the same way, so they keep it to themselves.
: Look for consistent actions. If he's always making an effort to spend time with you, remembers little details about you, and seems genuinely interested in your life, those are strong signs.
: Totally possible. Sometimes feelings sneak up on people. He might act differently around you and not even know why.
: That's a tough call! If you feel comfortable and confident, you could drop some hints or even tell him how you feel. It might encourage him to open up too.

3. You're His Main Attraction 💏

black and white, black, crowd, photography, monochrome, Guys and girls alike can be self-centered and self serving, which is a natural tendency. However, new and deep love means his focus will shift and you become his main attraction! He'll consult you for decisions, both large and small, he'll confide in you, and he'll put you first! That means your wishes and desires become his too, because he's fully interested in making you happy!

4. He's Touchy-feely 👫

black, black and white, white, photograph, person, When a guy is interested in you, you'll probably notice he becomes touchy-feely with you. Not in a gross (hopefully!) or even obvious way, but in a romantic way. He'll linger after a hug, kiss you longer and more passionately, hold your hand constantly, and he'll always find ways to physically touch you, even if it's silly and slight! These may be signs of deep affection so pay attention.

5. He Blushes around You 😊😽

person, interaction, singer, It's cliche' to imagine girls being the ones to blush at the mere sight of their crush, however guys blush too! If you notice a flushed face when you're close, when you compliment him, etc, he could be falling madly in love with you. Of course, this reaction fades over time but it's worth taking note of for new loves. Blushing can also be a sign of shyness so pay attention to how he is in a different setting as well!

6. He'll Shop with You 🎒👛👒👠

black and white, photograph, photography, monochrome photography, monochrome, Most men I know hate shopping with a passion and it's a huge chore to drag them around town! But for a love interest, and a new and exciting one at that, he'll be much more interested in shopping with you because you're all he thinks about. He's trying to get in as much time with you as possible so he'll probably be willing to do most things as long as you're happy. Take advantage, ladies because his shopping interest certainly won't last! 😝

7. He Confides in You 🗣🤓

black, white, black and white, photograph, footwear, Lastly, a guy who might secretly be in love with you wont be afraid to open up and confide in you. He'll share his family life, his career goals, and consult you for decision making. This is huge!

If you have a guy in your life and you're unsure about his true feelings, keep this list in mind! While nothing is ever definite, it's good to be aware if some signs along the way. What are some other secret love signs you've picked up on?

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