If you want to be happy, you shouldn't date a pessimist. Your Tango has proved that. Here are a few signs that their website claims are toxic for any relationship:
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1. He is a Victim of His Circumstances
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Does he always play the victim? Does he refuse to take responsibility for his actions? Then he's unhealthy to be around.
2. He Can Only See Things in Black and White
You can't view everything as "right" or "wrong," or "good" and "evil." There's a lot of grey area. If he can't see that, his perspective needs to change.
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3. He Can't See the Positive in Anything
His pessimism will rub off on you. If he's unhappy, even after he gets a promotion, then he doesn't know how to enjoy life.
4. He Gets Overwhelmed Even with Simple Tasks
It's not that difficult to put gas in his car. If he won't go to the gas station without whining and complaining, he's not right for you.
5. He Lives in Uncertainty
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You don't want to be with a man who changes his mind constantly. That means he'll eventually change his mind about you.
6. He's Ruled by Fear
Yes, life is scary. However, he can't let his fear of failure hold him back in life. If it does, he'll never get anywhere.
7. He Doesn't Remember Being Happy
If he doesn't know what it's like to be happy, he must not be happy with you. You two deserve better, so find someone who appreciates having you around.
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Comments
Kris: These sound like classic signs and symptoms of clinical depression. Please see a healthcare provider for help. I've dealt with it for nineteen years, and at it's best, it's a bitch to deal with, at it's worst, one may become suicidal.
Allyfedor: This sounds like your guy has anxiety/ depression :(
manchot: If you'll end up feeling like this yourself, it is very important your boy or girlfriend doesn't run of because of it. I know it is hard but if you love someone you'll do anything for them, isn't it?
Pinkz: I'm confuse with this! ahahaha!
Indi: These are basically symptoms for depression and anxiety. Please get help they are shitty illnesses but you can get better
GStar77: I like this article , it just a reminder that if you are a person who appreciates life and looks forward to see her or his other half but then the other half always or most of the time brings you down , it's because sometimes they just like to make you feel bad. I do t think that it's all about depression. There are people who just like to shit on your happiness and you just can't change that !
Heidi: The fact that my baby Chris brown is in the first pic 😐
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